to not want to go into work tuesday

[zobey]

Went on a works night out last night and from what i remember i spent the night in the pubs with just my director of the company and he kept feeling my bum and inviting me back to his hotel room. Im sure he kept buying me drinks all night too. How can i make things better at work. I didnt go back to his. I see him a good few times a day but all my work coleges i think know what was happening as he kept telling them to go away if they came over.

I want him to know that it can not and will not happen again.

Will you tell him this in person or by email?

Don't put yourself in the position where it happens again. Don't socialise outside of work. Don't drink alcohol with him. It's not difficult!

OP, you are being weird about it now. You seem to want to keep dragging it up. The majority here have said the same thing, and you're just not listening.

No don't bring it up with him. That would just be making it into a big drama. Maybe you're flattered that he appears to be treating you differently than others but you come across as quite naive (sorry). You've only been there 3 weeks. Do you want to become the subject of office gossip? Just chalk it up to experience and laugh it off if anyone mentions it.

I want him to know that it can not and will not happen again.

I wouldn't say anything about it now, but if there's another work night out, and he starts trying to buy you drinks then, I would just say it then.

If colleagues mention it, I'd say I was too drunk to remember much, and let it blow over it.

If he mentions it, I'd probably tear a strip off him about buying people more drink than they think they're having, and how irresponsible it is, as I had a friend who ended up in hospital almost dead from alcohol poisoning in exactly that situation. I'd probably also go off into the gorier details of some of my mother's trips to hospital from excessive alcohol abuse. This might not be the most helpful way to deal with it... If he does mention it, I would tell him how irresponsible it was, and be very firm that it won't be happening again and leave it at that.

I tend not to drink alcohol at works do's. Better for everyone.