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grobagsforever · 18/05/2014 12:30

DP was admitted last week and moved to HDU last night. They don't know what's wrong. He has fluid on belly, some kind of infection and impiared liver function. There is talk of moving him ti ICU. We seem to be waiting on endless tests. He is 35 we have a three year old and I am 7 months pregnant. I need him . Please tell me your positive stories of recovery from these situations.

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ExCinnamon · 08/06/2014 08:36

I'm very sorry for your loss.

You really did what you could for him.
All the best for you and those two precious babies, grobags. Your love shines on in them.

ZacEfronsLeftBicep · 08/06/2014 08:58

I'm so sorry Gro Sad words are inadequate at a time like this. But I'm thinking of you and your babies Thanks

NormaStanleyFletcher · 08/06/2014 09:16

So sorry Gro. You and your family are in my thoughts. Hold your little girl close and take ones minute at a time.

yellowdinosauragain · 08/06/2014 09:34

The hospital may already have given you this information grobags but in case not here are 2 organisations my friend whose dh died aged 38 following treatment for leukaemia found helpful

For children:
www.winstonswish.org.uk/

For adults:
www.cruse.org.uk/

Thinking of you today xxx

LuluJakey1 · 08/06/2014 10:34

So sorry Gro. Have thought about you both a lot and been hoping you would not have to face this. So sorry.

TotalBlamBlam · 08/06/2014 10:38

Grobags, I am so very sorry that this has happened. My heart goes out to you.

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ajandjjmum · 08/06/2014 11:05

So sorry - just awful news. Sending love and strength to you and your family. x

WolfMoon · 08/06/2014 12:11

I am so sorry for your loss, grobags, and that of your precious DC's.

May he rest in peace.

SueDoku · 08/06/2014 13:19

De-lurking to say how so, so, sorry I am gro Flowers.
Look after yourself and your little ones. Sending you much love.

Imnotbeingyourbestfriendanymor · 08/06/2014 14:37

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thegreylady · 08/06/2014 17:30

So sorry for your loss sweetheart. It is cruel I know, try to hang on now for the family he and you have created with love.
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JumpingJetFlash · 08/06/2014 17:33

Oh gro I'm so sorry. I only came across this thread today and so have read through your whole journey in a short time. I hope that you have support for you and your daughters x I hope there is some comfort in the idea that he will live on in them forever x x x

Betrayedbutsurvived · 08/06/2014 17:46

Oh gro, I'm so so sorry for your loss.

trulymadlydeeply · 08/06/2014 18:40

I've been lurking, Gro. So very, very sorry Flowers
You must be shattered. So very sorry ...
Xxx

AnnieOneWannaSmackWorra · 08/06/2014 19:46

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss gro. I have followed your thread and have prayed for a miracle. You and your children will be in my thoughts. Wishing you strength for the days, weeks and months to come. Flowers

Emski76 · 08/06/2014 20:28

I'm so shocked to come on and read this devastating news. I'm so so sorry Grobags. There are no words that can take your pain away. Know that our thoughts are with you.

LollipopViolet · 08/06/2014 20:34

Another who followed but didn't post. I am so, so sorry Gro Thanks

My thoughts are with you.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 08/06/2014 20:47

I am so very sorry Gro.

NoOneHere · 08/06/2014 21:05

Delurking to say how sorry I am Gro.

So sorry to hear of your loss. There are no words. Sad

Get as much help and support for yourself as you can. Your early posts concern me.

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Rowgtfc72 · 08/06/2014 21:13

So sorry Gro. My thoughts are with you and your families.

bizzieb33 · 08/06/2014 21:14

So sorry
xxxx

Fav · 08/06/2014 21:19

I'm so sorry Gro, thinking about you and your little girl xx

TheVioletHour · 08/06/2014 21:41

Very sorry gro. Thoughts with you and your family

Itsfab · 08/06/2014 21:42

That was shockingly quick.