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To please, please ask for your positive stories of people getting well having been on HDU/ intensive care

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grobagsforever · 18/05/2014 12:30

DP was admitted last week and moved to HDU last night. They don't know what's wrong. He has fluid on belly, some kind of infection and impiared liver function. There is talk of moving him ti ICU. We seem to be waiting on endless tests. He is 35 we have a three year old and I am 7 months pregnant. I need him . Please tell me your positive stories of recovery from these situations.

OP posts:
FrontForward · 06/06/2014 23:13

One minute, one hour, one day. It's the only way to cope with this. Thanks

FreakinScaryCaaw · 06/06/2014 23:15

It's horrific for you all x Really hoping you get some positive news very soon xx

Deverethemuzzler · 07/06/2014 08:54

Fucking cancer indeed.
So many of us have had their lives shattered by this dreadful disease
Have seen our precious children destroyed by it.
We know what its like.
We live with it every day.
So we know.
We know.

Flowers
minniemagoo · 07/06/2014 09:11

Oh Grobags, am amazed by your resilience. There is no 'right way' for anyone to face something like this so my thoughts for you and your family is that you have strength at this time and know so many people are wishing you well.

SallyMcgally · 07/06/2014 11:26

Thanks for you and lovely Billie, Devere.

thegreylady · 07/06/2014 15:42

Flowers all we can do is watch and wait with you grobags. You do what you must x

Annietheacrobat · 07/06/2014 16:59

Still thinking of you and your lovely family Grobags.

Four4me · 07/06/2014 20:42

Thinking of you all xx

Original poster
grobagsforever · 07/06/2014 20:57

He's gone

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ChatEnOeuf · 07/06/2014 21:00

Oh Grobags, I'm so sorry Thanks

RobinSparkles · 07/06/2014 21:02

I'm so sorry. X

roundtoit · 07/06/2014 21:03

thinking of you Gro, so sorry.

ButchCassidy · 07/06/2014 21:04

I'm so so sorry.

hashtagwhatever · 07/06/2014 21:04

Thinking of you x

Almostfifty · 07/06/2014 21:04

Oh lovey, you poor, poor girl.

Just know you are in many people's thoughts and you will get through this.

LIZS · 07/06/2014 21:04

So sorry :(

ThisFenceIsComfy · 07/06/2014 21:05

Grobags oh my goodness no.

I am so sorry.

He sounded so brave and so are you.

I'm so so sorry

PiggyPlumPie · 07/06/2014 21:07

I am so so sorry sweetheart.

notapizzaeater · 07/06/2014 21:07

I know words don't help, but I'm so so sorry for you xxx

Eve · 07/06/2014 21:07

So sorry

JammyGeorge · 07/06/2014 21:08

I'm so sorry gro x

candycoatedwaterdrops · 07/06/2014 21:10

((((gro and your precious babies)))) I am so very sorry for your loss. xx

echt · 07/06/2014 21:11

So very sorry for your loss, grobags.

NationMcKinley · 07/06/2014 21:14

Oh no, Gro. I don't believe it. I am so so very sorry. That is just awful. I can't say anything to make it easier but I can tell you that you're in my thoughts and prayers. Love and light. Please use us if it helps xxxx

TalisaMaegyr · 07/06/2014 21:15

I'm so sorry x