DH just 'cleaned' the kitchen

[nearlyreadyforstatelyhomes]

Fills the sink with washing up liquid, puts everything that wouldn't go in the dishwasher straight in there (dirty). This is a pet hate of mine. Means that from the off, everything is being washed in dirty water. So I offered to take over, partly because I'm rankled but also coz his washing up skills are somewhat lacking. Then - he dunks the cloth in the dirty water to clean the kitchen table.

Then when I said that cloth wasn't clean, he got the hump.

AIBU? We've got a 2yo and I'm pg. Hygiene is important to me. Should I have given him the medal he seems to think he deserves?

I make sandwiches anywhere because my sides are spotless (and to be honest I'm not very picky when it comes to things like that I'd eat off the floor), but DP has a 'thing' for using the breadboard.

Thanks for the advice unclet but my DP knows I don't mean literally "fuck off" he just knows I like my own space in the kitchen and has gradually started getting the hint...

I make sandwiches on the bread board, but like the washing up saga DH continues his differing ways into the art of sandwich making as well

I feel your pain. My DP has a "do as I say not as I do" attitude when it comes to him telling me how I missed a bit while wiping down. While I still have the cloth in my hand and only stopped to shut a cupboard door or drawer as he seems to think they're self-shutting.

I make sandwiches anywhere because my sides are spotless (and to be honest I'm not very picky when it comes to things like that I'd eat off the floor), but DP has a 'thing' for using the breadboard

It's more to protect the work surface from little scratches where you've used the knife to cut things. :)

lemony

No it's not generational. It must be something to do with you.