To be really fucked off?!

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NC because DP found out about mumsnet! just to be safe

The guys came in to fix the phones at work today. I can have a laugh with them. I can talk to them.
But now, I won't.
The guy said "How are you today?"
I said: "I'm tired, me. DP was on the xbox all night"
he made a weird face. then he asked me, when are you learning to drive?
and I said, "when DP gets a job"
He replied with: "Bin him. get someone with money!"

NONONO. You DO NOT say that to someone. I LOVE my partner and I do not appreciate this at all. We live with our parents so not having a job is no problem at the minute, no DCs, no house of our own as of yet. DP is going in the forces. I don't give a flying fuck about money. Yes, I'd like to be spoiled, but just being with him, to me, is being spoiled. Being told to "bin" my DP because I can't afford to drive and he was on the xbox is completely disgusting to say to a person.
AIBU to be COMPLETELY SEETHING about this?!

I never mentioned you anyfucker so I do wonder why you would feel the need to defend your posts, when what I paraphrased was a message you never intended at all?

I am pretty sure there are some MN users who hang around threads like this just to be able to jump in at an opportune moment with "Ahaaa ! See! Bullies!" Pitiful

Agreed.

Lulu, I actually cannot be arsed to scroll up to see whether it was you that quoted me or not. But somebody did. I am rapidly losing interest after stating my case though.

I'm not saying there was bullying on this thread, just some very unpleasant people who like to make others feel bad for their own ego boosts, and their little lap dogs who like to join in everytime.

Hope you're not too 'fick' to understand that one lol yolo.

LuLu you are quite amusing actually. You may be making others feel bad now though, any need for the name calling - or is it doing wonders for your ego

Lulu, I can only imagine you were not on the thread in real time when despite experienced posters trying to get to the true heart of the matter, OP concluded we were "not able to understand". It's a bit of a pisser, that one. Should we have said "oh yes, OP, you are quite right, we are not intelligent enough to get why you are acting like a petulant child"

As I said at the time some people understand the dynamics of being in a shitty relationship all too well, despite the determined confuscation of those still within one.

here were some of the comments

why people cant see they were plain old nasty baffles me... LULU

You sound really immature.
You sound unhinged
Agree with pp you sound very immature
seriously need to get a grip...and a life....and a sense of humour.
Are you sure Mumsnet is the best place for you ?
Why do you keep "laughing" after every sentence? What is the joke?
You sound mental

I know I should not even give a shit, but shit like this is why MN gets so slated IMO

Quite the bee in your bonnet LuLu.

I had it pegged at about 50/50 everlong

Haha, my Evil AnyFucker Ways will turn you to the dark side and there is nothing you can do about it....

I think it's time I had my tea

Um, no, you totally invited his comment.
He asked when you were learning to drive. Your reply strongly suggested that your DP's lack of job was the reason (I took it this way at least and guess he did too!). So if you complain about your DP not working, he's not out of line to respond in kind with what he must have thought was a welcome bit of sympathetic banter.
YABVU and a bit weird. Sorry.

...and I totally missed seeing there were another nine pages of thread. Sorry.

Someone doesn't seem to have 'The Social skills'.
Welcome to the world of Banter.

I suspect the OP has got exactly what she wanted, and this post will probably be deleted for trollhunting...

The OP is probably about 15 and currently on exam leave, he/she has posted a load of old nonsense in order to get a bunch of middle aged women with nothing better to do today (and I'm including myself here) engaged in a pointless, stupid bunfight.

So, well done OP, you've achieved your objective.

As for the eejits trawling through a 10 page thread for "evidence" of bullying, some of you need to get out more.

I'm at home today with a nasty bout of sinusitus, hope the antibiotics start working soon as this shite is wearing thin.

Peace, y'all.

ANyway, what happened to the OP? OP if you re-read fairycaravans post, she makes a very valid point there.

These chips are good, anyway