Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think that if you drop a child off at their home you wait to see if they've got in the front door?

108 replies

ChaosTrulyReigns · 30/04/2014 20:20

It's only coutreoud isn't it?

Someone was due to drop off DD3 at 7.30pm, bit decided to come apporx 30 mins earlier.

And just dropped and drive off.

We were all in the back garden so couldn't hear the door bring knocked.

Ever the resourceful one, after knocking for a while, she climbed over the dude gate and joined us. To our looks of wtaf have you just come from?

Ffs.

Should I say anything or leave it? Im inclined to leave it btw as am quite non confrontational. But am saddened that she could've been hanging around on the drive fir 30mins.

OP posts:
ChaosTrulyReigns · 01/05/2014 18:59

I LOVE you Bunbakee. Are you married?

OP posts:
Bunbaker · 01/05/2014 19:25
Grin

I am open to offers

Bunbaker · 01/05/2014 19:26

Yes actually

ChaosTrulyReigns · 01/05/2014 19:41

Oh bum.

A quick snuggly hug then?

OP posts:
HolidayCriminal · 01/05/2014 19:43

I dunno, even with an adult friend, I'd prefer to see them going thru door before I drove off. It does just feel like basic courtesy.

I wouldn't worry about safety issues with a 10yo, more like faff issues.

Bunbaker · 01/05/2014 21:38

Oh go on then. OH is away.

leedsgirl231 · 02/05/2014 12:00

When I get dropped off they wait till I go in the door, it's common courtesy.

BalloonSlayer · 02/05/2014 13:30

I do it with adults, not just kids!

On the way home from a night out I waited outside for ages until a light came on. Other friend I hadn't dropped off yet asked me why I was hanging about. I said "Well she's a bit pissed and what if she falls over in the garden and freezes to death?" (It was v v cold.) Friend v. amused but you never know. It didn't inconvenience me, sitting in my nice warm car for an extra minute just to be sure.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread