Dh was away working last week. I was at home with dd watching her myself. I managed fine tbh, shes a good baby over all- though can be demanding/ strong willed. (Shes 1)
Dh went out in the evenings whilst away, drinking with his colleagues and then had to up at 630 for work. It was HIS choice to go out in the evenings.
This week he has been working from 10-5 ish and has been sleeping everyday until 9, save for monday when he got up with dd around 630.
Yesterday I was due another lie as I have been getting up with dd everyday and this week she is teething, so subsequently very hard work all day.
Yesterday morn dh convinced me to get up too with him at 6 with dd. I thought I may as well as I wont be going back off to sleep and it'll be a nice family morning.
So thats been 1 lie in so far in 2 weeks fore, whereas dh has been up at 9 all this week ( save for 2 days)
So this morn we agree he will get up with dd again as I didn't lie in yesterday and I am very tired out watching a teething moody baby all day.
This morn dd wakes and I have to argue with dh until he finally gets up with dd. He says im selfish and he's working why should he have to get up with dd. I normally wouldn't mind, but he admits its hard work with dd , plus he's been lying in until 9 this week and was away basically getting pissed with work last week!
AIBU to ask him to get up with dd a few times this week? Normally its just once a week, twice if I'm really shattered.
Sorry for all the excessive mundane info! I don't want to drip feed...