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AIBU?

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Original poster

To want a lie in ...?

79 replies

Odaat · 12/04/2014 07:01

Dh was away working last week. I was at home with dd watching her myself. I managed fine tbh, shes a good baby over all- though can be demanding/ strong willed. (Shes 1)

Dh went out in the evenings whilst away, drinking with his colleagues and then had to up at 630 for work. It was HIS choice to go out in the evenings.

This week he has been working from 10-5 ish and has been sleeping everyday until 9, save for monday when he got up with dd around 630.

Yesterday I was due another lie as I have been getting up with dd everyday and this week she is teething, so subsequently very hard work all day.

Yesterday morn dh convinced me to get up too with him at 6 with dd. I thought I may as well as I wont be going back off to sleep and it'll be a nice family morning.

So thats been 1 lie in so far in 2 weeks fore, whereas dh has been up at 9 all this week ( save for 2 days)

So this morn we agree he will get up with dd again as I didn't lie in yesterday and I am very tired out watching a teething moody baby all day.

This morn dd wakes and I have to argue with dh until he finally gets up with dd. He says im selfish and he's working why should he have to get up with dd. I normally wouldn't mind, but he admits its hard work with dd , plus he's been lying in until 9 this week and was away basically getting pissed with work last week!

AIBU to ask him to get up with dd a few times this week? Normally its just once a week, twice if I'm really shattered.

Sorry for all the excessive mundane info! I don't want to drip feed...

OP posts:
Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 20:49

chokes on/spits out popcorn

She's massively sleep deprived Thoughts Wink that's all I can offer.

arethereanyleftatall · 12/04/2014 20:51

Or......

Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 20:51

Grin Quite

Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 20:52

Glad you find this entertaining pleasejustgo :)
How about you live up to your name and fuck off too?

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Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 20:52

This is way too entertaining OP

Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 20:54

I'm glad you enjoy baskin in other womens misery as a form of amusement

OP posts:
Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 20:56

You telling me to fuck of is amusing actually Grin

Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 20:56

Off

Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 20:57

You had my sympathy until you became abusive and ranty. If you care to read my original post that is.

Sweetheart.

Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 20:58

And on that not I will gladly fuck off from this thread.

Get some sleep OP.

Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 20:59

I did not become ranty until I had to retaliate to ranty and abusive posts. Dont get all holier than thou now. Luv.

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ThoughtsPlease · 12/04/2014 21:01

Ooh dear!

I'm surprised your DH hasn't agreed to get up more often before tonight if this is what sleep deprivation does to you.

theincrediblealfonso · 12/04/2014 21:02

Ignore the people acting like nobs, OP. YADNBU to want a bloody lie-in.

ThoughtsPlease · 12/04/2014 21:02

I don't recall being ranty or abusive.

You said it was hard, I said I didn't find it that hard.

Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 21:03

:) thanks...

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Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 21:10

I see it a lot on here. Trolls being nasty to the op for he sake of a lil bun fight. Its really pathetic.

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arethereanyleftatall · 12/04/2014 21:16

op take a moment to read through the thread. There we're some who agreed with you, and some who didn't. That is the nature of Aibu. You ask for peoples opinions, not for people to agree with you.
There is one person, and one person only, who has been abusive, rude, and frankly a little silly, on this thread, and that person is you. I hope you can get some sleep before you act this way to the people who matter to you.

Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 21:25

Haha nice one! It was you who started off the critical comments actually . I am al for people not agreeing, so don't try using that one either. You got nasty - many other posters have noticed this (you should maybe read over the thread?)

Please dont try and back track now and blame my sleep deprivation .. You got nasty , as did others, i stuck up for myself. If you had merely said IABU and simply why. Fine. But you got nasty. I see it in MN a lot , hence why I was quick to tell you to fuck off. I'm not interested in these silly bun fights. Go annoy someone else ...

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Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 21:27

I can assure you my sleep deprivation will not affect anyone close to me either . However , i fear your critical and back tracking behaviour may be a tad too much for your family to handle. Sort it out. Do us all a favour :)

OP posts:
Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 21:29

saunters back with fresh popcorn

Whatdidimiss?

Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 21:33

Oh gawd not you again ! Gimme some of that popcorn will ya? I need the sugar to keep me awake , haha

OP posts:
Pleasejustgo · 12/04/2014 21:36

Yawn

I think we've unanimously agreed you need sleep OP Confused

Sugar on popcorn is weird.

fucks off again

Original poster
Odaat · 12/04/2014 21:40

Guess ill fuck off too! Night ;)

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ThoughtsPlease · 12/04/2014 21:42

Pleasejustgo I came back too to take a look too, even though I was quite concisely told to leave, I'm rebellious like that.

OP on a more constructive note, why don't you go to bed now, then you'd be fresh for the morning?

ThoughtsPlease · 12/04/2014 21:43

Good plan Grin

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