aibu or is he ... child support and benefits .

[mummywithsmiles]

My daughter is 14 weeks old , just got discharged 3 days ago from hospital for the first time.

anyway her dad and i broke up, well he left when she was 2 weeks old in intensive care.

he is refusing to pay child support until i get a job. He earns toughly 2 k a month works full time .

he says he will not pay until im off benefits as its not fair he works his ass off whilst i get to sit on my ass whilst the government pays me too ..and then hr has to lose his wage to pay me too. I get just under 800 a month for daughter but i still think he should pay towards her whether i work or not.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/special_needs/2053256-my-daughter-the-survivor

this is her story xxx

How does he expect you to work with a sick baby? A nursery would notbe able to care for her. You need to be at home with your baby, he needs to pay up and stop being such a selfish twit.

I had a baby on oxygen at home, fed by tube and had meds down the tube and needed suctioning, no way would i ever have let him out of my sight overnight. His bio father was an ass and never even met him, just denied he was the father. What charms they are.

I wouldn't let him see a child he wasn't paying for. I will probably get flamed for that, but I don't care.