Heis I had my son 3 months after I turned 16. Im 26 now. Was on benefits in a deprived area for a while, until his dad (who ran away and joined the army when he found out I was pregnant because he was scared to be a dad so young) had a change of heart and came back to me and we got married. Ds was potty trained and learnt to talk perfectly well at the normal times, his development was fine. He had plenty of fresh fruit and veg, and although I didnt have much money for holidays etc, we would go to the library and to the park and learn about nature, pond dipping and things like that. He had everything he needed. Hes full of curiosity about the world, polite, generous with sharing, compassionate and helpful. We cook his tea together most nights because he wants to learn how to cook, and he loves reading. Some of his closest friends in his class have parents who are on very low incomes and they are lovely, polite, thoughtful and happy children. Some other kids in his class (whose parents are working and on much higher incomes) are over weight (one of them has chocolate spread sandwiches for dinner every day), rude and spoilt, they speak to their parents rudely in the playground and they pick on other children. People and their lives and situations are incredibly diverse and you cant put everyone neatly into little boxes and pigeon holes. Some of the most important things in life dont require money