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or stupid not to bother with contraception any more

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kentishgirl · 11/03/2014 18:08

I'm crossing my fingers instead.

I'm 46 years old. Yes, I still get periods every month. I think I'm peri-menopausal, just. Yes, I know the official advice is that you need to use contraception until one year after last period. But realistically, what are the chances...? What do you do?

I found a quote online from Dr. Joshua U. Klein, medical director of Reproductive Medicine Associates of New York-Brooklyn.

"When you hear of people in the public arena who are pregnant in their 40s, the obvious suspicion is that they've availed themselves of fertility treatment, but aren't being transparent about it,"

What are my odds of getting pregnant at 46 naturally?

Not good, said Klein. "Natural pregnancies—when a woman is trying to get pregnant with her own egg—do occur in women in their mid 40s, but it would be nearly miraculous," he said. Even in women using the assistance of IVF (in vitro fertilization), there has never been a clearly documented case of a baby being born from an IVF pregnancy in a woman older than age 45 using her own eggs. Klein estimated that the chance of having a baby at age 46 without intervention is probably about 0.01 percent or less.

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smaths · 14/03/2014 03:23

Neighbour had twins at 48 and my boss' sister had a baby at 50. Both had never had children before despite trying and eventually assumed that they couldn't, so dispensed with contraception (for several years before this happened). But apparently the hormone changes associated with menopause can do strange things with fertility. A sort of last hurrah, if you will... I would not be risking it in your shoes!

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