Just found out I'm pregnant

[Suchabadtime]

I've come here for the traffic

Basically my last period was the 2/2 - 6/2 I had sex with a guy on the 8/2 however we used a condom. We slept together on the 12th 2/3 times without a comdom which was a MASSIVE mistake. I got back together with my ex on the 16th and we had sex numberous times thought the week and every time after usually 1-3 a day a couple of days a week I was on micronor and took it the same time everyday. The only days I missed out on were 20th & 22nd I was also put on antibiotics around the same time

I've just found out I'm pregnant My phone says I'm 5 days late but that is wrong sometimes by up to 2/3 days to early.

My average length is 26 days and my letaul phase As I worked out was 12 days (according to my phone so could be wrong)

Am I right in thinking it will be my ex/current partners.

I know I was stupid I never saw myself in this situation!

[SuchABadTime]

Northern

I do chose whom I sleep with wiseley. I've been on the pill since I was 16 cerazette first and I had no periods Hence why I didn't know till I was 9weeks and micronor after

[Northernlurker]

But with my concerned mum hat on I have to recall you said you had no way to contact bloke 1 - the one you slept with twice and abandoned a condom with. I really doubt the wisdom of your behaviour. Sorry but I do and everything that's happened up till now affects what happens next.

[SuchABadTime]

Northern

I know what I was doing and I know what contraception I was using I would if said I was if I wasn't

[Northernlurker]

Sorry Op but no, I don't think you do know what you're doing. This site is a great resource for people in trouble or unfamiliar situations but it can only be helpful to you if you are frank and I think there's more to your situation that you've been telling us. If that is the case, well you're just wasting people's time with half the story.

[SuchABadTime]

Northern I do know what contraception I was using I was taking it everyday at 11am till I missed on 20th.

I do what I was and will be doing

[iamsoannoyed]

I'm a Dr - early dating scan are reasonably accurate (we usually quote 3-5 days either way) but this won't help much in your situation.

Given that you last had sex with the other man on the 12th and you took your pills regularly until the 20th (and assuming none missed/taken very late that you've forgotten about), then it is more likely to be your current partner as the pill should still have worked until you stopped taking it.

I say more likely, rather than positive, as it is possible that the pill failed before you forgot to take it (it is not 100% reliable).

[YetAnotherHelenMumsnet]

Evening everyone,
Thanks to those who have quietly reported their concerns about this thread, we just wanted to post to say that there's nothing obviously worrying going on our end.
Hope you get the support you need, SuchABadTime.

[anothernumberone]

I haven't read all posts but early dating scans (vaginal) are by far the most accurate especially if you are looking in terms of a yolk sac and not a foetus. Once you get to the stage of being a foetus it becomes more and more difficult to date accurately. I would get a private early scan.

[NeedsAsockamnesty]

I have a nearly 2 year old sat next to me and a 3 month old old my lap.

Both of them during each pregnancy were scanned very very early (the 2 year old they couldn't even find a sac and I had a op with a camera through my belly button this was at 3.5 weeks) the baby the first scan was the same day I got a BFP using a early test.

All my treatment (for those few weeks) was NHS at a EPU as a result of a emergency referral the same day by my GP.

So yes it is possible and it does happen.

[NeedsAsockamnesty]

Sat on my lap, my lap is not doubly old

[slithytove]

I had an early internal scan at 4 weeks due to not knowing my dates and a couple of other problems. They tried abdominal scanning, it failed, did the internal and saw only a thickened womb lining. This was on the NHS and was a direct call from me to epau.

[slithytove]

Next scan 2 weeks later saw a HB btw! Now 12+4

[GarthsUncle]

The OP only changed her name by putting the caps in.

Perhaps she read an old Chaos thread?

[SuchABadTime]

I noticed it didn't have capitals in so changed it I typed first name in a rush

[HappyMummyOfOne]

"I stopped talking to the other guy when I got back together with my ex so I have no contact details for him and he's in the navy"

Yet you miraculously got in touch with him .

What a fab GP you must have too. Ours is great but theres no way by 9am i could have spoken to the doctor and then in turn he/she called the hospital and arranged a scan.

If this is actually true, then you need to start to grow up a little. Numerous partners when you have a child already, unprotected sex with practically a stranger (given you had no number or address) and no mention of how you will support two children on your own.

The child deserves to know its true father, not the version you wish to portray.

[SuchABadTime]

Happy

I have said NUMEROUS times I WILL make sure my child knows whom it father is.

Both parties involved have already agreed on a DNA test. I pray you don't have an accident whilst taking your contraception.

I think of my son everyday, I do everything and more for him. However I don't have to explain myself to some random on the internet whom feels the need to pass judgment and be rude.

[Northernlurker]

You name changed to add capitals? That's very tidy of you. I'm surprised you even noticed. I certainly don't.

[SuchABadTime]

It was miraculous either I went to my phone company and got a copy of my bill as I said! If I didn't want to know whom the father of my child was I wouldn't of bothered to try and get details for the other man

[SuchABadTime]

Yes. You don't notice, I did.

I didn't realise I wasn't allowed to change my name if I wanted

[Northernlurker]

Most people have mumsnet set up to highlight the posts of the OP in a colour. (I have lavender - v pretty) When you namechange you bugger that up making it hard for people to follow the thread. I'm afraid it has been known for posters to namechange for less than glowing purposes too. That's why it raises a small eyebrow and evidently why somebody has asked about it.

[SuchABadTime]

Sorry I didn't realise it highlights.

I'm sorry