Just found out I'm pregnant

[Suchabadtime]

I've come here for the traffic

Basically my last period was the 2/2 - 6/2 I had sex with a guy on the 8/2 however we used a condom. We slept together on the 12th 2/3 times without a comdom which was a MASSIVE mistake. I got back together with my ex on the 16th and we had sex numberous times thought the week and every time after usually 1-3 a day a couple of days a week I was on micronor and took it the same time everyday. The only days I missed out on were 20th & 22nd I was also put on antibiotics around the same time

I've just found out I'm pregnant My phone says I'm 5 days late but that is wrong sometimes by up to 2/3 days to early.

My average length is 26 days and my letaul phase As I worked out was 12 days (according to my phone so could be wrong)

Am I right in thinking it will be my ex/current partners.

I know I was stupid I never saw myself in this situation!

[TheTerribleBaroness]

[TheTerribleBaroness]

MrsDeVere I think you may be being a bit harsh on the OP. Things really can happen that quickly - do you never watch soap operas or serial dramas on the television?

[Morloth]

Well the baby is definitely yours.

Forget about them for a while.

Nothing can be done until the baby is born anyway.

[Northernlurker]

It does make threads much clearer doesn't it?

[BumWad]

The highlight option is great! Thanks

[slithytove]

Thanks Northern and Coco

[Finola1step]

Have just tried the highlighting. Hurrah. Thanks Northern and Coco

[Northernlurker]

You just click on customise - next to Talk in the menu at the immediate top of the thread. All the options are in there. I have mine highlighted silver and op's in lavender - v tasteful I also have it set to 'mumsnet sober workplace' not that I use it at work - oh no......

[slithytove]

Northern how can I set up my account to highlight OP posts please

[SuchABadTime]

MrsDeVere

I know I guess I'm just trying to grab hold of something and get in control. I'd rather have it done now so I don't have to spend the next 8 months worry about one person not knowing and refusing DNA test

I will slow down

[SuchABadTime]

I will step away from this thread thanks finola

[SuchABadTime]

MrsDeVere

I had deleted all contact numbers/whatsapp/messages and call logs when I got back with an ex (something he asked me to agree with and I didn't mind at the time)

I called him once on my sisters hen do so I went through my phone bill when I got it from the phone shop and typed them in and his was the only one not in my phone

[Bearbehind]

OP, surely you can see the irony in you having said 'I do chose whom I sleep with wiseley' when you have to contact your phone company in order to get the details for a man who might be the father of your child.

You sound like you need a reality check. At only 21 you have one child to a man you don't see and are now pregnant to one of 2 men, neither if whom want to know about it.

If you want to and are able to support yourself and 2 children alone then go for it but stop this crazy obsession of trying to establish who the father is.

You have to accept that if you sleep with 2 men within 4 days of each other you are not going to know who the father of the child is when you get pregnant.

[Finola1step]

I didn't know you could highlight either. I have been on mn for a while now and I post far more often than I should. But this highlighting business is new to me.

Such I think I have said to you a few times now, it's time to focus in your own health and well being. Might be a good idea to step away from this thread for a while.

[SuchABadTime]

Sorry I didn't realise it highlights.

I'm sorry

[Northernlurker]

Most people have mumsnet set up to highlight the posts of the OP in a colour. (I have lavender - v pretty) When you namechange you bugger that up making it hard for people to follow the thread. I'm afraid it has been known for posters to namechange for less than glowing purposes too. That's why it raises a small eyebrow and evidently why somebody has asked about it.

[SuchABadTime]

Yes. You don't notice, I did.

I didn't realise I wasn't allowed to change my name if I wanted

[SuchABadTime]

It was miraculous either I went to my phone company and got a copy of my bill as I said! If I didn't want to know whom the father of my child was I wouldn't of bothered to try and get details for the other man

[Northernlurker]

You name changed to add capitals? That's very tidy of you. I'm surprised you even noticed. I certainly don't.

[SuchABadTime]

Happy

I have said NUMEROUS times I WILL make sure my child knows whom it father is.

Both parties involved have already agreed on a DNA test. I pray you don't have an accident whilst taking your contraception.

I think of my son everyday, I do everything and more for him. However I don't have to explain myself to some random on the internet whom feels the need to pass judgment and be rude.

[HappyMummyOfOne]

"I stopped talking to the other guy when I got back together with my ex so I have no contact details for him and he's in the navy"

Yet you miraculously got in touch with him .

What a fab GP you must have too. Ours is great but theres no way by 9am i could have spoken to the doctor and then in turn he/she called the hospital and arranged a scan.

If this is actually true, then you need to start to grow up a little. Numerous partners when you have a child already, unprotected sex with practically a stranger (given you had no number or address) and no mention of how you will support two children on your own.

The child deserves to know its true father, not the version you wish to portray.