To be extremely fucked off ?!?

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...with a fellow mum, and supposed 'friend' at the school?

Basically, my son is best friends with this boy (they're both in Yr1 & went through Reception / nursery together). The other boys mum is a young mum who I thought was quite mature for her age, lives with her mum and dad still - her mum does more with the boy than her though, typical loving nan I guess?

Anyway, we've known each other for a few years now - this family know the shit we've had to endure; financial issues, hubby's Stroke, other issues.

I posted a FB status status last week saying for anyone who was online, if they didn't like me then delete me ... Well, the nan deleted me! Hmmm, surprised as we've always been pals ?

Then the kids mum, posted a status about loving her new work colleagues etc, I commented saying that was great but not to be too open to them as I've had sufficient experience of being shit on by colleagues in the past - she got really pissed off with this so I removed my comments. I since saw a comment from her to somebody on her FB calling me a 'bloody crank'?!

I took this girl's son on an expensive day trip out last Summer, bought him lunch, toys etc This girl calls me a crank yet has just announced she's preggo again with her 'friends' baby this time ?!?

Just to add this girl also claims fraudelent benefits, which pisses me right off...

Would you be alnnoyed? Would you pull her at school or just ignore them from now on??

I feel really upset and disappointed to have let my guard down and opened my heart again to people who I believed to be decent people, friends

Aw Beeyump, u ok hun? :( :o

PANZEE, IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME JUST DELETE ME, K?!

Am I the only one that just pmsl at Finn?

I wouldn't bother trying to have the OP see the light anymore folks. She won't. She thinks she's grand, and it's everyone else with the problem. Her opinion on that is quite clearly unshakable.
She's a grade A drama llama. She's one of those that doesn't even realise it because it's so intrinsic to her personality.
She's so deluded to her own importance, that she thinks that taking someone else's child out for the day buys her the eternal right to be exalted. She sees nothing wrong in rubbishing the mother's happy news, and imagines her opinon on their lives is of some import. She is genuinely perplexed and dismayed at their lack of graciousness.

It's a waste of time arguing. There is nothing to be said or done for her.

Oh sorry, Wobbly, did Finn say something?

Oh gawd, I knew someone like the op once. She loved trotting out "I say what I mean and mean what I say" - until she was given a taste of her own and she went batshit crazy!

People like this are way too much hard work for me

Hahaha, I have only just noticed (how could i have missed it?!) Finn's mishap.

You both sound like hard work.

I'm crying with laughter at fynn's posts.

This thread is hilarious.

I really do apologize, I hate to hijack a thread, even one as delicious as this.

OP it would help if you could try to see that it is not all about you :)

Finn - that was total "Lol" territory!

As is most of this thread tbh...

I've now got another reason to add to my expanding list of "Why I will Never Do Facebook"

Why would you post that jn the first place? Very odd

ArsePaste you beat me too it =D

too? to! See, this thread has discombobulated me so much I've lost the ability to spell!!

Epic thread.

Attention-seeking immaturity aside, the bits that really got me were:

"I commented saying that was great but not to be too open to them as I've had sufficient experience of being shit on by colleagues in the past"

and

"I feel really upset and disappointed to have let my guard down and opened my heart again to people who I believed to be decent people".

Paranoid much?!

OP im guessing you didnt start this thread to entertain people but its made me really chuckle

Honestly though, you're a no bullshit person and so am I, so here is the truth. Your supposed friend doesnt like you. You post emotional stuff on FB, the "delete me if you dont like me" absolutely screams of attention seeking and what you wrote about her new workmates could easily offend them if they were friends with her too. If i was her I wouldnt like you either.

Quit FB and find something else to do with your time!!

This thread has actually made me pretty happy. Thank you everyone, MWAH.

She can like you but she doesn't have to like it when you put a downer on her new job. She was probably very excited that it's going well, the last thing you want is someone coming along raining on your parade even if you were trying to be helpful, put yourself in her shoes. It would have really pissed me off is someone had said that to me about my shiny new job that I love. It would make me think they are a bit jealous.

As to her mum, she might not like you. Posting about delete me if you don't like me does come across as being a bit childish.

Are you about 10 ? Sounds like it. Really grow up.

One word: DNA.

You sound like hard work.

I miss the old days when British eccentrics were bumbling but essentially benign old ladies in purple hats. We seem to have swapped them for shouty people with big dogs and throbbing neck veins sad

Laughed my arse off at this.

DNA?
Im disappointed OP hasnt come back with her rational calm thoughts

This is a WONDERFUL thread, it's really cheered me up!

I bet OP is a Vaguebooker too. It's the kind of thing her sort do.

I find people who claim to call a spade a spade are usually quite rude but unable to handle similar behaviour back.

If I had to be indebted to someone for taking my child on an "expensive" day out then I wouldn't let my child go. I've never grudged taking other children out despite how much it may have set me back.