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AIBU, or is he... over a drunk photo

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bloomingbloom · 08/02/2014 10:39

I have been ' seeing' this man, for about a month, keeping it casual. More of a fling than a long term thing.

We have had sex, and have rough plans to see each other sunday.

I went out last night, came home, and in my drunken state decided to text him a pic of my legs, in bed, crossed, from the thigh down, with the caption ' wish you were here'

i got a reply from him, but it was telling me i needed to stop being rude. Which was a bit odd seeing as he had sent me a rude pic on monday

anwyay, i said sorry, i had just been messing about and didnt mean to offend, and he said he was sober and tired and felt awkward and unsure generally.

I said that its fine and i was going to slink off to recover my rejected ego.

and then he said that he didnt mean it like that, he liked the pic but doesnt like anything.

i dont even know what that means.

i feel awfully embarassed, but then think, well. he sent a pic on monday. it was only legs, you can see more on a night out.

so, am i an awful slut or is he just a dickhead?

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pianodoodle · 09/02/2014 09:52

I hate it when people just keep saying "I'm confused" without much additional info.

Just makes them sound a bit thick.

bloomingbloom · 09/02/2014 10:08

i dont think it does....

i had already said i was going to leave him to it. ergo, ending it.

I had previously dumped him 2 weeks ago

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GTA5MASTER · 09/02/2014 10:08

That is so weird. Why say he didn't want things to get sexual even though you have both already crossed that line. It's mind boggling what is going on in his mind. Seems like he has got you mixed up with someone else or he was in bed with another girl and she may have seen the pic :-/

bloomingbloom · 09/02/2014 10:10

i think hes sending texts lke that, without me replying in between, because hes trying to convince himself he isnt dumped.

because his ex left him too.

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Jesuisunepapillon · 09/02/2014 10:15

Jesus, I hate men like this. I think it's a shitty way of sleeping with someone and not wanting a relationship, but not wanting to admit to that. Cue the 'poor me, I'm so confused.'

Sorry he was such an idtio.

Alexchallex · 10/02/2014 08:15

Forget about him

Loopylouu · 10/02/2014 10:20

Wow, he sounds very strange!

(As an aside, if a man sent me a pic of his cock I would find it pretty horrendous. They are not exactly pretty).

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