Split up with my ex in early november. Domestic violence. Police, solicitors, social worker, domestic violence advocate and therapist involved. All are backing me.
I was advised to stop contact altogether with ds dad as he was extremely emotionally abusive. Not just to me, to my kids also - his son included.
He breached his non molestation order and is up on trial in janurary.
Although we are hoping it falls through as there is too much against him.
Everyone will state they want the non-mol kept in place.
Only ive had his parents contact me via a solicitor asking to see ds over christmas.
I feel awful about this. His mother did threaten that i would never see my son again when they took him from me for three days.
This has left me somewhat worried and im having nightmares about every which way he can be taken from me.
Exes parents coming to see my son is one way they could take him.
I know if they did i would get him straight back, but it was far too traumatic the first time. I cant put myself or my dc through that again.
So would i be being unreasonable if i didnt allow contact to take place?
Not at least until i have gotten over them taking my ds.