You'retoastmildred- round of applause for your posts.
You are absolutely right... Why should the fact that some people might appear to have a better deal, be a reason to begrudge and resent and bitch and complain. Because the chances are, their are other aspects of their situation which are tough.
Many teachers entered the profession not expecting the kind of salary they could command in other sectors, but with the trade off of a better pension deal. Then the goalposts get moved... Of course they are going to complain about their t and c
And you are spot on in your recognition that people living in different times and places will get different deals. No point bemoaning that fact- lets get on and work towards a better future for all.
I had 12 weeks maternity leave with my babies- that was what was on offer then. Did I bitch and moan that its not fair when 6 months, then 9 months and then a whole year were brought in? Of course not. Just because it didn't personally benefit me, doesn't mean I have a god given right to complain. I think it's great that times have moved on and mums (and dads) get better parental rights.
These threads just highlight the self serving nature of some individuals. It they aren't personally going to benefit from something, they sure as hell don't want anyone else to. And if someone is taking some last resort action which will affect their child or which they disagree with, they just get nasty about it.
I think probably 95% of working people deserve better than they're currently getting in the UK. We are a first world country fgs. It's outrageous that so many working people are suffering crap wages, pay freezes or cuts, changes to the pension that they pay hundreds into every month, and now expected to work til they drop too.
It's not something to be divided on- we should all be aiming for something better, surely ?