Listen CoG, this man is abusing her every time he comes near here.
Every access visit she's been shouted at, he's been nasty, threatening whether she's alone or not.
Her child is ill. He only cares about himself, not even thought to ask about his DD, isn't paying a bean, is slinging her out, and her MIL likes to make/hear the baby cry.
Why should our valient op hand a sick, BF baby to this man? When the child is not going to be cared for, already hasn't been cared for by either?
It's sensible, not hysterical.
What you don't get is that Far is being bullied, has been for ages, by this diabolic duo, and some quiet time, without them tearing her to pièces would be the only decent thing to do.
She's asked for space, not got it. She's asked for civility, not got it.
This guy doesn't care about the welfare of anything outside his pants!
He's not capable, nor prepared to care for this child. What's more he actually wants to make that child suffer instead of being in the best place for her.
He's sick, his mother's sick, and Far and her DD are better off without.
No child should have access to an abusive, tormenting man like this.
Far needs distance to gain perspective. This man is not her partner anymore, he's her landlord's son, and harassing her.
She has rights. She has power, she just needs to find and use them.