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To really want a cold, cold winter?

233 replies

Sparklymommy · 03/09/2013 08:08

Just that really. I have enjoyed the summer, don't get me wrong, but I long for a proper winter. Christmas card scenes with snow and frozen ponds.

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Sallystyle · 03/09/2013 12:56

Noo! I get depressed in the winter and I am so cold blooded that I spend most of winter being miserable.

valiumredhead · 03/09/2013 13:09

Sir Chen-you could always move further South?Grin

TheSmallPrint · 03/09/2013 13:28

Valium did you not see our -19 degrees?? Grin

cumfy · 03/09/2013 13:29

Scottish holiday ?

BonaDea · 03/09/2013 13:33

Yanbu.

Proper summer and proper winter.

sonlypuppyfat · 03/09/2013 13:33

Don't want huge heating bills , but I seem to be an age where this summer has been a living hell I only have to move and I have been soaking in sweat. My face has been the colour of a turkey cocks arse. I'm hot in the winter its been awful

goodasitgets · 03/09/2013 13:37

No thanks Grin
Work will get busier with people constantly falling over, and if I can't get to work then mountain rescue will come and get me

Betrayedbutsurvived · 03/09/2013 13:38

Yeah bring it on. Who cares about the elderly, homeless and those in fuel poverty who could easily freeze to death when there's picture post card Christmas scenes on offer.

melliebobs · 03/09/2013 13:39

YANBU I've friggen hated this hot summer. I'm so glad I work in a gym so have extra cold air con! Winter I love. Freezing cold, crunchy ground frost n clear skies. Lovely. Rainy winter not so!

valiumredhead · 03/09/2013 13:40

Plenty of illnesses made worse by the heat too.

Sirzy · 03/09/2013 13:41

Yup that makes DS ill too.

SquinkiesRule · 03/09/2013 13:47

Much as I love winter (well I think I still do I have lived away so long) This winter will be my first one living in UK for a long long time, a mild one would help us settle back in without me having to listen to Dh whine about the cold. so crossed fingers for a mild one from me. I'll be back this week.

RussiansOnTheSpree · 03/09/2013 14:12

I didn't notice anybody caring much about the people for whom this horrendously hot summer has been torture.

valiumredhead · 03/09/2013 14:18

Quite Russians

usualsuspect · 03/09/2013 14:58

Well TBF, you don't spend so much money on heating bills in summer.

Nor do you take your life in your hands sliding down the hill to the bus stop

Nor do buses stop running.

RussiansOnTheSpree · 03/09/2013 15:19

Well, TBF, you don't end up in A&E for 6 hours watching your 9 year old child being put on a drip and being given a battery of neurological tests because she has collapsed with heatstroke in winter.

You don't get sunburn in winter (unless you go skiing)

You don't spend a complete fortune on factor 50 suncream in winter

You don't get hayfever in winter

You don't get sunstroke in winter

You can't get away from the heat in summer, but in winter you cn wear lots and lots and lots of layers

It doesn't matter whether you can run for the bus or not, in summer - you ca't travel safely on a bus in extreme heat if you are likely to throw up or collapse (or if your child is).

So. To sum up - it's unreasonable for someone to have a go at people for wanting a cold winter on the basis that they don't care about others, since tht basis is never applied to people wanting a hot summer; it's also unreasonable to say that a hot summer doesn't bring specific icy related problems and imply that those are the only problems that matter. They aren't.

This summer has been bloody awful for my family, and I am perfectly entitled to hope for a nice long cold winter.

Sirzy · 03/09/2013 15:21

I don't like very hot or very cold weather. Both cause too many problems!

heronsfly · 03/09/2013 15:24

Yanbu, I would like a proper cold winter too,not just soggy days full of wind and rain, but real crisp days Grin.
My favorite threads on mn are the 'snow' ones,everyone is always so Naice, I keep checking to see if there is a long term weather thread yet.

cerealqueen · 03/09/2013 15:25

I like the romantic idea of it.... snow, and frosty mornings and lots of fires. In reality, huge heating bills, a boiler that may not be up to it, illness (I was the sickest I've ever been last February) whilst looking after two under 5.

Maybe a snowy three days at Christmas and then it all melts for a mild winter.

cerealqueen · 03/09/2013 15:28

I do have a better winter wardrobe than summer tho!

Bubbles1066 · 03/09/2013 15:41

I prefer winter to summer as I burn easily, hate suncream (brings me out in a rash), get awful prickly heat etc. But the cost of gas and a dodgy boiler mean I don't want it that cold. A perpetual early Autumn would suit me fine.

usualsuspect · 03/09/2013 15:41

It's,so bloody dark in the winter though.

Dark on the way to work,dark on the way home.

Bubbles1066 · 03/09/2013 15:44

And my Mum nearly ended up in hospital with severe dehydration due to her health issues and the ridiculous heat so the cold is definitely better for her. I wonder what's worse for health, extreme heat or cold?

usualsuspect · 03/09/2013 15:45

My mum won't leave her house in snowy weather for fear of falling on ice.

ifyourehoppyandyouknowit · 03/09/2013 15:46

I love the darkness of it. Not being woken at the arsecrack of dawn by the sun, and it feels all lovely and snuggly and you don't even feel guilty going to bed at 8.45 with a hot water bottle and book, because it's already dark!