To expect to orgasm every time I have sex?

[Feckssake]

My H has ED issues and we are due to see his Doctor in a few weeks' time. I'm expecting to be asked what I want from our sex life, but I'm pretty inexperienced, apart from with H, so I don't know if this is a reasonable thing to expect or not. I orgasm just fine from manual stimulation, but my H can't keep hard long enough for me to get myself to that point from penetrative sex. Do most people orgasm every time they have sex, or is that just the media? A bit of perspective would be great, thanks.

Kundry has hit the issue. It's about the poor DH with ED. if the Doctor asks, then its that they both would like him to stand to attention longer. You need to worry about why he has ED. hopefully it could be external factors like stress, tiredness, but health issues may be a concern. Without knowing his age, he really shouldn't have any issues in that department if he's under fifty or even older, so the root problem needs sorting.

Never had an orgasm during sex in my life. No cock is good enough for my stupid vag it seems.

Lol @ built from gristle and clitoris

As far as I am aware most women do not orgasm with penetration alone.

Surely the beauty of decent sex is that it's so varied, and you're never quite certain what's going to happen. It builds the anticipation.

Absolutely. I can't imagine just laying there for the same old thing every time. As far as I (and thankfully DP) am concerned, it's about two whole bodies enjoying all of each other.

TMI alert. Sex for us varies from a rough session on the lounge carpet on a Friday night, through to slow, sensuous loving in bed on a Sunday morning. There will always be a P and a V involved, but not just putting one into the other to get to the O.