Should I have it out with her

[wossgoinon]

Long time lurker here but in a bit of a quandary

My long term friend has gone on holiday abroad for two weeks with her new dp. She asked me to look after her DD age 12 she best mates with my DD since babies. I asked why isnt dd going and she said 'Oh she doesnt want to'

Im now in day 8 and the mum has not contacted once. She has not given me any contact numbers in case of accident and only gave her dd £20 spending. She goes home on Monday

I have asked her dd why she didnt want to go on holiday and she said 'I wasnt asked :( ' .

My friend has already fallen out with her mum and sis due to her new relationship because she is ignoring family. I feel that I will be falling out with her too.

AIBU to have it out with her ?

Don't get involved in a big "you said, I said" row on FB, although it might be tempting.

Just ring SS - for advice if nothing else - and let the girl know that your DD and you are always there to be a listening ear, or willing to help her.

The mother sounds like a right crow, sadly from working in Social Services in the past, I know that there are plenty of others like her :(

I always knew she was selfish but not to this extent. She is doing 'the poor me' 'I love him' 'people do not want me to be happy' Er not when your behavoiur effects your daughter I dont.

RE FB. I havent done any slanging as I have blocked her.I did look up narc behavior and its her to a tee