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to be disappointed that royal baby is a boy

267 replies

Madmum24 · 22/07/2013 22:48

I know IABU, baby is healthy etc, but for some reason I really thought it would be a girl.

I don't know what has got into me, I am certainly not a royalist but I have been so interested in the birth.

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northernlurker · 23/07/2013 09:40

Miranda Hart

Katherine Grainger

Helen Mirren

BringBackBod · 23/07/2013 09:41

curlew Charles, William and new baby are all first borns.
They would be heirs to the throne even if the new law came in 60 years ago.

NobodyPutsTomArcherInTheCorner · 23/07/2013 09:41

I wish we could get past a 'role model's' gender being the issue. Girls and boys can be inspired by people not of their own sex.

northernlurker · 23/07/2013 09:42

From the child's pov being a boy probably means an easier ride from the media. Misogyny is alive and well and will be watching the mother's waistline. Now that's something that does need challenging but who wants to see a vulnerable adolescent in the firing line. It's been bad enough to see what Beatrice and Eugenie have endured.

GoodTouchBadTouch · 23/07/2013 09:44

"Boys are dull."

And its OK to say that then??

I DO think everyone wants a boy first... hence the anger on here.

NobodyPutsTomArcherInTheCorner · 23/07/2013 09:48

Everyone doesn't Goodtouch.

GherkinsAreAce · 23/07/2013 09:49

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ThisReallyIsNotSPNopeNotAtAll · 23/07/2013 09:50

Its nothing to do with wanting a boy first,its to do with people been disappointed in the gender of a child that isn't theirs and that they don't even know.

Its strange and I dont understand why people are so quick to dis miss a boy because they feel he should have been a girl like we have never had a Queen before Confused

Shes been around like 100 years or something and will be around for another 100. Grin

Its not like its been Kings all the time.

What we should be concerned about is the fact Prince Harry as been robbed of the throne! Grin Seriously, he should have been born first!

fancyanother · 23/07/2013 09:54

Good touch How can you speak for everyone? "I wanted a boy first" you would have been entitled to say. I have never had any desire for a girl, and I get intensely irritated by people on here saying "Oh everyone secretly wants a girl" Its stupid and patently untrue.

NobodyPutsTomArcherInTheCorner · 23/07/2013 10:00

I have dd's and a ds. Their gender was irrelevant to me. I was equally delighted and happy with them ALL.

exoticfruits · 23/07/2013 10:04

Gender stereotyping on here at it's worst!
People speaking for others, in that they want something and therefore everyone else must!

usualsuspect got it right at 7.51.

WhatWillSantaBring · 23/07/2013 10:12

Totally ignoring the parts of the thread that see this as a boy-bashing thread, and instead focussing on the wider issues. I'm delighted for them, no matter what the sex, and I'm sure they don't give a shit what the rest of the country is thinking (because lets face it, even those of us who have had gender dissappointment from family are just so thrilled to have a happy healthy baby that we don't care)

BUT.... I too think it would have been more interesting from a media coverage aspect if it had been a girl. Obviously there are the nstitutional changes (which I'm sure may get conveniently set aside... apparently Australia are having real problems with one of the States and the whole Australian constitution becoming a point of principle (not the change itself, but how the change is implemented nationally). This allows them to avoid the issue in the hope that they become a Republic before it matters.)

icbineg - but this could have been an opportunity to change the princess meme. And show that princesses don't have to be pink, ditsy and only interested in their looks.

I would have been really interested to see what "career" path they found for a girl. Would they have been very progressive and suggested she do a stint in the armed forces to prepare her for her role as the head? Because that would do a lot to dispel stereotypes both for princesses and women in the army. Or perhaps, if she had the brains, suggested she try a full professional career, such as medicine, law etc. So much opportunity to provide a good, positive female role model.

We can also be pretty sure of Baby C's education as a boy, (London prep school; major public school (likely to be Eton - according to my friend, all Old Etonions aspire to send their children there), university, Sandhurst) whereas a girl? Malborough? Beneden? A smaller private boarding school? Even a day school?

But as I say, thrilled for them and not at all disappointed, apart from the

WhatWillSantaBring · 23/07/2013 10:12

damn, posted too soon. *apart from the less interesting media coverage.

ThePrinceofCambridge · 23/07/2013 10:20

I think a girl would have been nice to add more women to Williams life since he lost his mother. He has a brother and a Father.

I wanted a girl for that very reason, having lost my mum, I desperately wanted a girl to try and have some of that kind of relationship back.

If he had a sister and lost his father, I would have preferred a boy.

I also liked the historical ascension aspect of it.

Poor op, a light hearted thread been dragged down in the dungeons of some peoples minds.....as only MN can do!

DomesticCEO · 23/07/2013 10:22

WhatWill, Kate doesn't do anything but float around in pretty dresses giggling though so why would we expect anymore from a younger princess?

ThePrinceofCambridge · 23/07/2013 10:26

I wouldn't personally hold up any princess to my DD's as role models. I cant really think of many people I would, Jessica Ennis springs to mind right now, but I wouldn't want them to follow many people in the public eye as ...role models.

I do not think I myself looked to the royals as role models either, I never gave them much thought. I do love history and pomp and ceremony and I think they are great for that.

sweetestcup · 23/07/2013 10:26

shadeofme that's a very nasty post you've made slating 50% of the world just because they are male, and actually very offensive. "boys are dull", how ignorant.

SooticaTheWitchesCat · 23/07/2013 10:32

I must admit I hoped it would be a girl too, just because it would have been so historical.

I think this must be the only time in hotory that people were hoping the heir to the crown was a girl ;)

TheOriginalSteamingNit · 23/07/2013 10:38

I was really hoping the royals would listen to public opinion and move with the times this time, and choose a woman to be the next Dr Monarch. Why oh why oh why etc.

northernlurker · 23/07/2013 10:41

I don't know what's worse on this thread - the all boys are crap and dull or the Kate is a poor role model, waste of space etc etc.

If I were the parents reading this thread I would be leaving by the back door and everybody can whistle for their pictures until we can collectively get over ourselves and just be pleased that mum and baby are safe and well, dad is delighted and they are all going home to get on with their lives.

GoodTouchBadTouch · 23/07/2013 10:47

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DiaryOfAWimpyMum · 23/07/2013 10:51

It was a full moon last night.

ThePrinceofCambridge · 23/07/2013 10:51

good

I am reporting your nasty and un true post.

Are you saying people with LD only recognise peoples name and what they wear.

How ignorant of you.

jellybeans · 23/07/2013 10:52

I would have been thrilled for them either way but I'm sort of glad it is a boy now as fed up of people being negative about boys :(

propertyNIGHTmareBEFOREXMAS · 23/07/2013 10:53

Oh dear. Now we have someone using the term 'learning disability' as an insult. Shame on you.