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To not know what to do jobwise?

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catgirl1976 · 21/07/2013 17:31

I currently have been in my current job for nearly 9 years but it's changed, I don't really like it and I am bored

I have the opportunity to go for another job in a different company but I can't decide what to do

My existing job is local to me and is only a couple of miles away. I can also do the role standing on my head.

The potential new job is an hour or so commute away. I have a 19 mo DS. I would be leaving the house at 6:30am and getting home 6:30pm. I don't drive so would be relying on trains and would have increased travel costs.

The existing job is permanent - the new job is a 6 month contract with a chance to go perm.

BUT - the new job is in investment banking which sounds very attractive and better then my current industry (energy trading). And the enforced me time on the train appeals - as does working in a major city.

DH doesn't seem keen for me to take the new role. I am torn. I think my CV looks crappy with 1 job for nearly 9 years and something fresh would be good for me and good for my career, plus it could be the foot in the door to a good industry.

Anyone got any views on what they would do?

The money is better in the new role but not massively so, especially after extra travel costs.

OP posts:
scottishmummy · 22/07/2013 19:15

Indeed the interview,the process is worth doing for experience.and buys bit time too

Emsmaman · 22/07/2013 19:16

In this current environment, I would not leave a perm job for temp (whether Male or female). Its a fight to the death for every perm job as so few companies are adding to headcount. The big investment banks are using a lot of long term temps then when you reach the max term they get someone new in. I would presume you want to impress in order to get further work which means you will need to stay longer than core hours

TimeofChange · 22/07/2013 20:59

Op: I think you are very lucky having a job that you can do standing on your head, therefore very little stress.
If you are able to leave work on time every night that is a massive bonus.

You have a brilliant work / home balance now and you are not exhausted with commuting, working long hours or stress.

To give up a permanent job does seem very risky, unless you have a few grand savings to tide you over future lean periods.

Best wishes to you whatever you decide.

JetSetWilly · 22/07/2013 22:10

Have you been offered the job op or are you asking whether you should go for the interview?

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