To think DD should be invited to this wedding?

[Sarah2506]

I've been invited to a wedding when DD will be six months old. I still intend on breast feeding at that stage.

Wedding is strictly no children and would require an overnight stay.

AIBU in thinking no children probably shouldn't extend to breast feeding mothers? We had a no children wedding but made that exception though it wasn't needed in the end.

Am I totally out of date or is this cool now?

She is a good friend. Wedding is in Wales, I'm in London. I can express, yes, but I still wonder if that's an ok expectation!

OP - glad it worked out. I'd have suggested emailing too, because when she said "no children" she still intended that the adults should come. She may well have been hurt if you'd said, "Well, I can't come because my DD is breastfeeding" and thought you were deliberately snubbing her. So always best to ask in these situations.