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Original poster

To be totally horrified that women on a parenting website are giving advice to a violent rapist on how to see his child?

204 replies

Heleneahandcart1 · 08/05/2013 12:23

I have no words, I am beyond disgusted

www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/advice-support-40/serious-stuff-43/929210-just-out-prison-want-see-my-daughter.html

OP posts:
everlong · 09/05/2013 19:15

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CoalDustWoman · 09/05/2013 19:20

You know when some posters bang on about MN being all right-on and out of touch and it's all PC gorn mad? It's because it's that level and type of thinking to which they are comparing MN. And are not happy because in the rest if their lives, everyone just nods and agrees. No-one really likes to be disagreed with.

usualsuspect · 09/05/2013 19:22

Blimey, it's hard to get banned from here.

usualsuspect · 09/05/2013 19:23

Every forum has good and bad posters.

MN has its fair share of idiots Grin

everlong · 09/05/2013 19:26

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LadyBeagleEyes · 09/05/2013 19:28

You were banned from MN Boomba?
What did you do?

Boomba · 09/05/2013 20:19

A personal attack!!

Im hugely misunderstood Grin

No, I honestly never intended any 'attack'...there was a thread where OP was moaning about some neighbour with a superiority complex; her life was a charade. follows long thread, about how awful people like that are, they get their comeuppance etc. People suspected the awful person was a MNer

i posted something like 'OMG, is it XXX?!...and got banned. For naming the name, i suppose.

Daft thing is, all my other posts on the thread were in defence of the 'awful neighbour' (possibly XXX)...in that, why not just move on, stop obssessing/you lot are as bad, wishing misfortune on her Confused

i nice really, honest officer!

crazynanna · 09/05/2013 20:33

Don't worry Boomba...NaziMods always get rid of the more reasonable poster. I was banned for sooo much less. Unless you are NeoNaziMum on there..you just don't fit the Mod's criteria.

IRCL I am the Wolfie Shiney hater if that's any help Smile

Boomba · 09/05/2013 20:35

no crazynana that was on here Blush

crazynanna · 09/05/2013 21:34

Oh sorry..wrong end of the stick Blush

sweetestcup · 09/05/2013 21:38

I have never wanted to join, I really dont think my eyes could take all the sparkle and glittery tickery things plus all the quoting...its a mess to read.

Original poster
Heleneahandcart1 · 10/05/2013 03:00

Now hes on another thread trying to put off a woman who is clearly in distress. What a piece of shit.

www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/advice-support-40/serious-stuff-43/928723-so-confused-need-shoulder-2.html

OP posts:
TantrumsAndBalloons · 10/05/2013 05:53

Oh lovely.

A rapist advising a woman who has been raped how terrible it will be for her if she goes to court.

Boomba · 10/05/2013 06:57

I've reported him FFS. why don't they ban him?!

SchroSawMargeryDaw · 10/05/2013 07:20

We need to stop health professionals recommending that website to new Mothers and women who may be vulnerable.

My GP made a comment and told me to get off this site when I told her I went on it (full of loons apparently) but my HV etc is quite happy to recommend NMs. Angry

Dear God that website is awful, the mods should be ashamed of themselves.

Binkyridesagain · 10/05/2013 07:29

The Mods have edited the thread, it looks like Sams posts have been removed, letshope they have banned him as well, doubt it though.

Boomba · 10/05/2013 08:17

Urgh...the disgusting shit PMd me!

I posted on Hannqhs thread, to say
1 that I had been raped, didn't report it...regretted it. To wish her strength

And

  1. To tell Sam, that rapists were unhwlpful/ unwelcome

His PM, said he doesn't want to argue with me on the main forum, but that it obvious I haven't been raped. That I am not helping 'the poor girl's and I should think more about the impact my actions will have, before posting!!

KoreRenati · 10/05/2013 08:49

Eurgh, he's vile!

SchroSawMargeryDaw · 10/05/2013 10:29

Omg, what a disgusting excuse for a person.

MsJupiterJones · 10/05/2013 11:08

The only reason I can think that HVs recommend it is for the Local sites. But it really is extraordinary how endorsed it is. I received an email from the NHS this morning with a link to the 'health chat' page of NM too, which afaics is full of nonsense. Nothing as insidious as the stuff on this thread but still... why?

MsJupiterJones · 10/05/2013 11:14

Boomba that is just appalling.

Sorry you had to go through that in the first place but to have your word doubted by someone like that must be a horrible feeling.

BabyMakesTheBoobiesGoLeaky · 10/05/2013 11:27

He's scum,pure and simple.

SchroSawMargeryDaw · 10/05/2013 11:28

No Jupiter, I was recommended it for weaning advice and other such things.

I am very glad I was already a member here instead!

InLoveWithDavidTennant · 10/05/2013 11:41

Shock holy crap!

wtf are they thinking over there?

the more i hear about that site... the more disturbed i feel about it

TantrumsAndBalloons · 10/05/2013 11:43

The HV recommended it to my sister in law.
I dont know why they are pushing this site, it is not a good place to be.