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To be totally horrified that women on a parenting website are giving advice to a violent rapist on how to see his child?

204 replies

Heleneahandcart1 · 08/05/2013 12:23

I have no words, I am beyond disgusted

www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/advice-support-40/serious-stuff-43/929210-just-out-prison-want-see-my-daughter.html

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MerkinMaker · 09/05/2013 12:27

I think it has been taken down as I can't see it when I'm logged on.

CoffeePleaseSir · 09/05/2013 13:10

Why do they take threads down then put them back up? Surly it either stays or goes, that's just utterly ridiculous, I'm not a member never have been.

Personally I agree it's a troll, getting there sick kicks.

pigletmania · 09/05/2013 13:29

Really if I were the mother I would try my hardest to keep my child as far away from him as possible. He as te capabilities for violence and rape what's to say he won't do it again. These women encouraging him are delusional

IneedAsockamnesty · 09/05/2013 13:45

Last night you did not have to be a member to see it. I read it and I am not nor do I intend to register there.

I expect its been removed because people are talking about how vile and irresponsible it is.

BegoniaBampot · 09/05/2013 13:57

he thinks he is just being clever, pulling everyone's strings, he's lying through his teeth. Probably sees himself as a Hannibal Lector type, arrogant, superior and intelligent who can control and manipulate the weak, stupid women.

And yes, the responses have been more disturbing than this one sick idiot.

ShadeofViolet · 09/05/2013 14:05

I cannot believe threads on NM get pulled for swearing but this is allowed to stand.

BabyMakesTheBoobiesGoLeaky · 09/05/2013 14:14

That thread made me so sad,not just for survivers of rape and domestic violence/abuse but sad that women stand for the perceived rights of scum like that over the protection of others. Regardless of whether the thread is real,the responses have shocked me. Educated women wishing him luck.Shock

Smellslikecatspee · 09/05/2013 17:51

Remember you are talking about the same site that allowed a post called a 12 year old gang rape survivor a slut. . .

I got deleted on that thread for challenging them. I may have mentioned that I thought they were a fucking idiot.

The amount of shit this guy is putting on there is Shock, the bull about the job etc, well no firm that ever wants a gov contract or a large company account would have someone with a prison record working at that level.

Can't see it at all now.

MerkinMaker · 09/05/2013 18:18

That is disgraceful Smells. It is unbelievable that there are people that think like that.

everlong · 09/05/2013 18:28

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usualsuspect · 09/05/2013 18:32

Have you all complained about it on Netmums?

Not sure what it's got to do with MN tbh.

Boomba · 09/05/2013 18:34

Has the thread been deleted?

everlong · 09/05/2013 18:37

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usualsuspect · 09/05/2013 18:39

I dunno Everlong, I don't go on Netmums.

Boomba · 09/05/2013 18:43

I logged in and reported it

BabyMakesTheBoobiesGoLeaky · 09/05/2013 18:44

I have no experience of posting on netmums but surely there is something wrong when a 12 year old child is called a slut by grown women?!Shock
It truly beggers belief and I hope my DDs don't end up with a netmum as a friend. I am raising them to be strong independent women not simpering vaginas there for breeding and aesthetic purposes.

everlong · 09/05/2013 18:46

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Heleneahandcart1 · 09/05/2013 18:54

Well I reported the thread and politely complained about it and they banned me Hmm

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everlong · 09/05/2013 18:57

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Heleneahandcart1 · 09/05/2013 18:58

Thats the sec

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Heleneahandcart1 · 09/05/2013 19:01

Oops

Thats the second account they have banned. The first one was when I complained it was highly dangerous to allow posts 'advising' a woman how to cover up for her boyfriend biting her child to social services. Fucking madness indeed.

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Boomba · 09/05/2013 19:02

No, I haven't had a reply

But the thread seems to have disappeared?

everlong · 09/05/2013 19:05

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TantrumsAndBalloons · 09/05/2013 19:10

I was banned for challenging a rather interesting view which managed to encompass racism, benefit scrounging, and children with special needs all in one page.
It was amazing.

Actually I think it may have been a temporary ban but I cannot go there again. Because I have never in my life come across people like this.

Boomba · 09/05/2013 19:11

Haha! I went there because I was banned from MN!!!! Shock shhhhh!

But, its boring as much as anything else...