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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to ask how old you were. . .

260 replies

wtf1981 · 03/01/2013 00:37

when you became a mother for the first time/when you had your other children if you've got more than one?
More of an 'I know I am being nosy'!
Am 31,married to a lovely man and becoming keen but feel scared still,which I hope is normal,but time is ticking!
Please share your experiences (ages/fears)!
Thanks :)

OP posts:
slartybartfast · 03/01/2013 10:18

ds1 one month into the age of 29
dd1 31
dd2

Calabria · 03/01/2013 10:18

I was three months shy of 43 when I had my daughter.

My husband was keen to have children so I came off the pill when we got married but at my age and with my family history I never in my wildest dreams expected to conceive.

I was hysterical when I did the positive test. I thought my life was over. And it was. But a whole new life took its place :)

MamaGeekChic · 03/01/2013 10:19

Had DD at 24, she'll be 2 in a few months, if we decide to have another we'll start trying next summer.

MotherOfSuburbia · 03/01/2013 10:22

22, 24, 26, 28. Sounds more organised than it was!

flowerytaleofNewYork · 03/01/2013 10:22

31 and 33

I had pregnancies at 27 and 29 also.

ben5 · 03/01/2013 10:23

ds1 was born November 2003. I turned 29 in Feb 2004
ds2 also a November baby but 2005. I turned 31 in Feb 2006

VitoCorleone · 03/01/2013 10:24

I had my first son when i was 21

Had my second son when i was 25

FurryFox · 03/01/2013 10:30

Dd1 - 23
Dd2 - 25
Dd3 - due in March, I'm 30.

3ismylot · 03/01/2013 11:31

DS1- Born just 2 weeks after my 24th
DD & DS2 - Born 2 months after my 27th

Am now 30 and have been sterilised Grin

ShamyFarrahCooper · 03/01/2013 11:34

25 when I had my ds, who just turned 5. How fast it goes!

NervousReindeer · 03/01/2013 11:35

Just had DD1 at 21. Would like to wait 5 years before another

CaHoHoHootz · 03/01/2013 11:38

26, had three kids before I was 30. I think that was the perfect age for me. I met my partners at 18, I'd finished Uni at 21 and worked straight from college.

I was keen to have DC's before 30.

HDee · 03/01/2013 11:38

14
22
24
27
29 - twins
30
31 - twins
33

No more babies for me.

CaHoHoHootz · 03/01/2013 11:40

Calabria. That is wonderful Thanks

dinkystinky · 03/01/2013 11:45

DS1 - 29. DS2 - 32. Will be 36 when no 3 arrives.

diddl · 03/01/2013 11:46

PFB 32
PSB 33

Fell pregnant quickly with both-think I had just one period each time.

motherinferior · 03/01/2013 11:50

DD1 37 (a bit accidentally Blush, had only been seeing her dad for a few months)

DD2 a few weeks after my 40th birthday.

wtf1981 · 03/01/2013 12:03

Well,thank you very much ladies! 168 replies and all of them helpful and/or informative. Lovely to hear such a range of ages and experiences. Know there's never a perfect time and that you adapt and just cope. My mum says she'd have them for me if she could!
Just worried about birth really,more than anything,but my rational side tells me to get over that and just do it!
Know I want them so hopefully this will be the year. Thanks again for the info and good luck wishes!

OP posts:
AlienRefluxThanksFuckThatsOver · 03/01/2013 12:36

blimey HDee!! here have some Thanks and some Wine and put your feet up!!

Lucy411 · 03/01/2013 12:37

I'm pregnant with my second and worried about the birth and have done it once! It's natural it's known as the most painful things EVER but you do forget hence me worrying this time that I won't cope with the pain etc x

Lucy411 · 03/01/2013 12:38

And hdee :o

Lucy411 · 03/01/2013 12:39

*meant : 0

KellyEllyChristmasBelly · 03/01/2013 12:40

31

Fakebook · 03/01/2013 12:41

Dd - 24
Ds - 28

Tigresswoods · 03/01/2013 12:41

We have this thread every week. I don't know why?