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to think this 'concept' is bloody ridiculous not to mention dangerous and to ask if anyone else would like to give some feedback?!

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QueenOfFarkingEverything · 23/11/2012 17:40

The Bottle Bib - for those who don't have time to sit and feed their baby Hmm

They have a questionnaire inviting feedback. Please do join me in giving some Smile

OP posts:
Glitterknickaz · 27/11/2012 14:12

Absolutely nothing abusive in my comments.
I did point out that it could cause drowning by aspiration as the baby couldn't eject the bottle in any way with that device.

I did however use a silly name. So what?

Blu · 27/11/2012 14:16

"If my little boy decided to use my iphone cord as a noose, should iphone stop producing cords? "

Just not the same.

tethersend · 27/11/2012 14:17

"I would like to hear from anyone who had their children taken into care, by social services for not feeding their children by hand..? Really?"

Don't be silly- nobody implied that they would. I would just like to find out what view SS would take of a parent using one of these whilst their parenting is being assessed; would it count against them? I really can't put it any clearer than that. Perhaps your mum may know?

ScrambledSmegs · 27/11/2012 14:40

I am glad that you mentioned Trading Standards, Mai. I neither posted on here, Facebook or Twitter. I did however report the product to Trading Standards as I have serious concerns about its safety.

Hopefully TS will investigate swiftly.

FellowshipOfFestiveFellows · 27/11/2012 14:49

Mal those examples are ridiculous. An iPhone cord has not been designed, as this product has, as an aid to make life easier with a baby.

I never said that those who ignore the product advice and the accidents they cause are the responsibility of the inventor. It is her responsibility however to realise the worst case scenarios of her product prior to marketing it. She asked for feedback, she was given it. Simple as that.

StarlightMcKenzie · 27/11/2012 14:59

for your hamster baby

MurderOfGoths · 27/11/2012 15:49

Mai Hope you don't mind if I spell out my answers to you

  1. All of the accusations are based on seeing the product information which the businesswoman put out there, and are added to be people's personal experiences.
  1. If bleach was packaged and marketed at children then it would still be dangerous. Marketing something at children doesn't automatically make it safe.
  1. Most people have been constructive and civil.
  1. Wrt trading standards, it would be better to discourage people from buying a product in the first place. If this business has stopped selling these dangerous products then we've achieved something good.

"I assumed that you being a woman, meant you had a better appreciations about our emotions, challenges etc"

Appreciation for emotions/challenges? If I leave aside the fact that men have the same emotions as us and focus on the challenges then it still doesn't give me a reason to support someone who is potentially putting babies at risk. And in fact, if you want to pull the gender card then actually this woman is doing our sex no favours by making it seem as though women are daft enough to put multitasking above the health of our babies. And you are doing us no favours by suggesting that we put the emotions of a fellow women above our concern for babies safety.

"And of course she can see it on MN, this is a public forum."

She asked MNers to review the product, repeatedly.

"I presume that you would have the same attitude if your child was publicly attacked on fb"

I presume that if my child was trying to profit from a dangerous product then I'd expect him to be pulled up on it.

"The product explicitly mentions the need for 'supervision'."

Right, back to the bleach analogy. If I marketed a bottle of bleach for kids, selling it as a fun thing for children to play with but made sure to put a disclaimer in that says "Do not let them play unsupervised", would that be ok? I mean, it's only dangerous if they open it right?

"Fellowship, could you please be so kind as to tell me why, if a parent chooses to misuse a product (against product guidelines) it is the designer's/seller's fault?"

It isn't a product with a low risk of danger, there is a fairly high risk. Especially if being used to the manufacturers guidelines. Which are "The Bottle Bib is for babys 3months + allows you to multitask". Even with the supervision disclaimer the baby is still being left alone while the parent's attention is elsewhere. Let's face it, if their attention was on making sure the baby couldn't come to harm with a product like this then they couldn't be multitasking. When it comes to a product like this it just isn't going to be possible to supervise enough and multitask.

"If my little boy decided to use my iphone cord as a noose, should iphone stop producing cords?"

That would only be a fair comparison if iphone were marketing their cord not only at children but as a fun thing for them to wrap around their necks. And if they were, then yes, they should stop.

"If you believe there is a choking hazard, I am not sure I mentioned this before, but trading standards are there to test products etc for the safety elements. Perhaps before slating something, we should test it and comment from a factual POV."

My first post on this thread talked about how my son has a tendency to doze off while feeding, but continues to make sucking motions. Even with me holding the bottle there is always a moment where he will choke. Fortunately while I'm controlling the bottle I can instantly move the bottle away and can instantly sit him forward and pat his back. This device would slow down the time it would take to do both of these actions. Especially if you take into account the fact that one of it's specifications is that it "Secures Bottle to prevent movement". Movement would be the one thing it would need to make it safe.

babydude · 27/11/2012 16:27

"If my little boy decided to use my iphone cord as a noose, should iphone stop producing cords?"

Not a proper comparison. No one is marketing an iPhone cord as an amusement for children.

The feeding product is specifically designed to do something that goes against all sensible advice about feeding as it can cause choking and asphyxiation.

If you really can't see the difference between the two then it does go a long way to explaining why you are defending your position like you are.

ConfusedPixie · 27/11/2012 16:29

starlight: I think you may have linked the wrong blog post? Confused

StarlightMcKenzie · 27/11/2012 16:31

Oops. I meant this

But do enjoy the picture on the first link Grin

StarlightMcKenzie · 27/11/2012 16:39

The baby keeper

BOFingTheDude · 27/11/2012 16:40

Let me tell you where I am on this, Mai.

I'm out.

ScrambledSmegs · 27/11/2012 16:42

Totally agree with what MurderofGoths said.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 27/11/2012 16:44

That thing is insane and wrong on so many levels. I cannot believe that the person who designed that has ever met a real baby!

babydude · 27/11/2012 16:44

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StarlightMcKenzie · 27/11/2012 16:49

Can I tempt any of you with a Willy Wigwam?

BOFingTheDude · 27/11/2012 16:51

Only if you own the patent and will call us all bullies, Starlight.

babydude · 27/11/2012 16:52

Starlight Grin

When I was expecting DS, someone bought me some "pee pee tee pees" from the US. I'm so pleased to see that such a great innovation has finally made it to our hallowed shores.

TunipTheVegedude · 27/11/2012 16:59

Dear OP, if you're continuing with your dreams of going into business, may I constructively and kindly suggest a course on business ethics might be useful to you?
Firstly, so you can think harder about where moral responsibility lies if a dangerous product is produced, and secondly, so you can understand the importance of not lying on social media about your connection with the company in question.
Best of luck Smile

CajaDeLaMemoria · 27/11/2012 17:07

Mai - I think that it's very important that MN pointed out the dangers of this.

Like you said, I'd like to believe that nobody would purposefully create and sell a dangerous product. But either she was, or she honestly didn't realise.

We gave her the benefit of the doubt, and told her how dangerous it was. Perhaps some were more blunt than others, I don't know.

But you can bet your life that the courts would not have been so lenient if someone's baby had died whilst using this. And "please supervise" isn't enough to stop the product being liable.

She (or you) may be feeling vulnerable and wounded at the moment, but the alternative was a high-profile court case, the potential of a criminal record and a huge fine, and your name all over the internet. Your business would have been destroyed, and your life might well have been too.

StarlightMcKenzie · 27/11/2012 17:14
Grin
ScrambledSmegs · 27/11/2012 17:15

Tunip - the OP isn't the 'inventor' of the baby drowning device she's linked to in the first post. She was just drawing our attention to it.

Sarah from Romford probably does need that course on business ethics though...

ScrambledSmegs · 27/11/2012 17:15

Strikeout fail.

Balls.

TunipTheVegedude · 27/11/2012 17:22

Oh apologies Queen, I was getting you muddled up with MaiFraser.
An inexcusable slip, you are far too sensible for that.

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