YABU although Ben is not a name I would use either. I do know a rather lovely young Ben, and a 6yo Ben that could consider world domination.
Drippy names to me are when Ethan becomes Ethie, Jake becomes Jakey and Joshua - Joshie.
Why, why?!
Is that feminizing a name? I feels that way and it's certainly drippy. Like soggy toast 
Each to their own I guess especially to my friend who calls her three son's by these names