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piercing a young childs ears........

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charllie · 26/07/2012 18:43

I really don't understand why a parent would want to take their young child out and get their ears pierced!! Having a stranger, or even someone you know, either using a piercing gun to pierce their ears, or using a needle (not sure which one is used for young children) I personally think it should be illegal for a parent to make this decision. Or maybe not that strong, but at least an age limit. Why can't the child make that decision for themselves when they are older. Why take a baby, or even a toddler out to get their ears pierced!!?? In my eyes, its a form of child abuse. Its no different to hitting your child, etc. You are causing them pain, quite often making them bleed, all so they 'look nice' well i think it looks horrible! I've not seen one child/baby that i think awww cute. I have piercings myself and i will not be getting my DD's ears pierced until i feel she is old enough to make that decision for herself and only then, will it be after she has been talking about it for a little while.

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usualsuspect · 27/07/2012 19:37

Alright Ghostship you have made your point.

usualsuspect · 27/07/2012 19:38

I think saying 'are you from netmums' might be a personal attack though.

GhostShip · 27/07/2012 19:40

Personal attack? No sorry, it was a question.

People like that ruin this forum.

Kayano · 27/07/2012 19:41

Morethan

'there are reports an stuff' is a really weak when claiming ear piercing attracts paedos to children

usualsuspect · 27/07/2012 19:43

People like what ruin this forum?

RubyFakeNails · 27/07/2012 19:44

I would be particularly interested to read those stats, and exactly how they came to those conclusions. I hadn't been aware that asking sex offenders about the influence of ear piercings on their actions had been a recent study, how naive of me.

RubyFakeNails · 27/07/2012 19:45

Also I strongly resent being directed to read anything by Tanith Carey.

zukiecat · 27/07/2012 19:56

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zukiecat · 27/07/2012 20:05

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Krumbum · 27/07/2012 20:07

Oh well this is silly now.

zukiecat · 27/07/2012 20:10

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Kayano · 27/07/2012 20:11

Zukie fits right in here ghost. She has her opinion, stated it, told someone straight that she was offended and then reported what she felt was a personal attack

Whether it was or not is by for you to judge and I prefer straight talking people 'I'm reporting because xxx' rather than snidely little people reporting and running and getting stupid things deleted.

I was once reported for saying 'a dentist who tells you thumb sucking is ok is a shit dentist' don't know who it was or why or what they had been smoking that day!

So waves Zukie flag

usualsuspect · 27/07/2012 20:13

Zukie love, don't let some silly Internet sprite get to you.

OlympiaMumsnet · 27/07/2012 20:14
Kayano · 27/07/2012 20:17

Is OlympiaMumsnet a real mumsnet person (staff) or just picked a confusing name? GrinWink

zukiecat · 27/07/2012 20:18

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OlympiaMumsnet · 27/07/2012 20:36

@Kayano

Is OlympiaMumsnet a real mumsnet person (staff) or just picked a confusing name? GrinWink

How very dare you?

Kayano · 27/07/2012 20:38

:D it was the lack of Blue!

I thank you for spelling my name right Grin
Am I forgiven?

GhostShip · 27/07/2012 20:39

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usualsuspect · 27/07/2012 20:41

Blimey, quickest deletion ever.

Gold medal to MNHQ Grin

GhostShip · 27/07/2012 20:41

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usualsuspect · 27/07/2012 20:42

Bye then.

usualsuspect · 27/07/2012 20:42

You are right though, this is not the place for you.

HTH

zukiecat · 27/07/2012 20:43

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