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....to want to ban page 3???

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DianaVreeland · 20/07/2012 16:07

I remember seeing a page 3 girl for the first time when I was about 6 as my neighbour bought the Sun. I cringed inwardly, and haven't stopped feeling the same since. I have 5 nieces 3 nephews and my own 2 sons.....I hope they could grow up without seeing images of women objectified like this. Clearly I am not showing this to them but at some point I know they will. Does anyone else feel the same?

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GhostShip · 22/07/2012 21:32

Nothing else better to do I suppose

yayitssummer · 22/07/2012 21:38

I don't like it but it also doesn't bother me. I just feel sorry for the kids having to see it tbh. oh well it hasn't ruined any if our lives i'm sure it will be fine. #nothingchanges

LineRunner · 22/07/2012 21:43

Ah, Banquo's Sloop returns.

GhostShip · 22/07/2012 21:44

Quite funny LineRunner :o

topknob · 22/07/2012 21:45

I have no issue with it either, the girls are paid a wage, they are clearly happy to do it, my dh may look at at it (I don't know for sure) but it doesn't bother me if he does. My kids have no reason to look at it as we do not buy the paper.

Krumbum · 22/07/2012 21:49

Women are seen as sexual objects throughout our culture. Page three normalises this cos it's just in the paper. It's not speciality it's just there while you read the news.
The effect objectification has on women is huge. It's the reason men think they have the right to to touch women on the street. That women are expected to wear makeup to a lot of jobs and why so many people don't see sex work as degrading, dehumanising. It affects us all very negatively.

GhostShip · 22/07/2012 21:51

Nothing will change if you ban page 3. You'll just be taking away someone's choice to do something.

LineRunner · 22/07/2012 21:54

But I'm choosing to want to do a campaign.

GhostShip · 22/07/2012 21:57

You do that. I hope it makes you feel soooo much better and maybe a bit high and mighty. Go you for being so productive and doing something worth while with your time. Hmm

Krumbum · 22/07/2012 22:05

Banning page three won't do anything unless we change everything else that objectifies women in this culture, but it's a start.

GhostShip · 22/07/2012 22:09

What is your aim?

What exactly do you think you'd get from all this?
That women would suddenly stop wanting to be sexy or wear makeup or maybe even SHOCK HORROR stop shaving their fanjos :o ??

Krumbum · 22/07/2012 22:10

What? No the aim would be greater equality for women.

kim147 · 22/07/2012 22:10

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GhostShip · 22/07/2012 22:11

Or men would suddenly stop seeing females as sexual objects? Or what?

GhostShip · 22/07/2012 22:12

I think this equality stuff is how you see it. If you feel yourself inequal to men than you're going to be treated as such.

GhostShip · 22/07/2012 22:15

Could you please explain to me how we are treated equally to men by the way?

GhostShip · 22/07/2012 22:15

*unequally

Krumbum · 22/07/2012 22:21

Oh ok. So women are paid less and thousands of women are raped every year just cos they 'feel' like they are unequal.
No that isn't why, it is because this society is controlled by men and culture is controlled in a way that benefits men.
Do you pretend Victims of racism only think that because the 'see' themselves as unequal?

Socknickingpixie · 22/07/2012 22:22

out of intrest surely if you didnt want to wear make up to work then you wouldnt unless you worked at a make up counter or on film?

HipHopOpotomus · 22/07/2012 22:23

I don't like it. YANBU.
I'd never seen anything like it before coming to England - tits on the tube or wherever. And nearly 20 years later it's still here.

Krumbum · 22/07/2012 22:24

Nope. Many Women are told in order to be 'smart' they need to Be wearing some makeup.

GhostShip · 22/07/2012 22:25

Krumbum I find you really irritating, you bring rape into every argument. Women are not raped because of page 3. Women are not raped because they wear makeup, women are not raped because we are 'unequal'

Women are raped because some sick individuals cannot understand the word 'no'.

HipHopOpotomus · 22/07/2012 22:27

Nothing will change if you ban page 3
err yes - there would be no more page three for a start Smile

So that will take "tits on the tube/train/wherever" out of my face and everyone else who sees them. I wouldn't be thinking that like ale and Ascot, it's part of English culture.

scottishmummy · 22/07/2012 22:27

intensely dislike but don't want p3 banned
p3 doesnt cause rapes or assaults
however it is indicative of casual objectification of women

Krumbum · 22/07/2012 22:28

I wasn't talking about page 3 then. I was answering your question which was about general inequality. You asked in what way women are treated unequally, so I answered you.

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