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to think I really wouldn't want to be Katie Holmes right now....

89 replies

headfairy · 02/07/2012 11:48

sounds like it's going to be a really messy divorce. Poor Suri caught in the middle :(

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choceyes · 02/07/2012 11:49

Me neither but I'd be glad that I escaped tom cruise!

squoosh · 02/07/2012 11:51

She must have a lot of information that she could use against him if things get nasty. I'd imagine she didn't leave until she had things set up and 'proof' of various things safely ensconced with her lawyers.

manicbmc · 02/07/2012 11:53

I'd imagine that all that kind of information was covered in a pre-nup and that she won't be able to say a word.

Glad she's out of it.

Psammead · 02/07/2012 11:55

I'd rather be her now than five years ago.

choceyes · 02/07/2012 11:55

I read she was going for full custody. As much as I think tom cruise is weird does he really not deserve to have joint custody (if intact she is his daughter! ). I think this is unfair on the part of Kate tbh .

headfairy · 02/07/2012 11:57

The joint custody thing is a tough one if they live on opposite sides of the country I think. Poor kid will have to do a 6 hour flight every couple of weeks? I know she wouldnt' be going commercial of course, but there's still the disruption to her schooling, the jet lag... miserable. Poor little rich girl :( Who ever said money brings happiness?

Agree KH is much better off out of it though. I wonder if Nicole Kidman has offered any support?

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Mrsjay · 02/07/2012 12:00

the cult is so massive almost a corporation that i would think Katie will be left out in the cold I read today she thinks she is being followed, not sure if katie actually said that you know what the newspaers are like

Tressy · 02/07/2012 12:00

I don't know anything except that they have split up. What has Tom done?

headfairy · 02/07/2012 12:04

Not sure tressy, I think KH was more worried about the influence of Scientology on Suri.

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squoosh · 02/07/2012 12:14

Well Nicole and Tom have 'joint' custody of their two children but in reality I don't think they see their mother at all. I think Katie going for sole custody is her trying to enure that the same fate doesn't befall her. I'd imagine her main aim is to stop Suri getting sucked so far into Scientology that she 'decides' not to have so much contact with her mother.

valiumredhead · 02/07/2012 12:18

She's going for joint custody and flights will be done by private jet I imagine so doubt there will be any queuing at airports involved Wink

He really does give me the creeps!

MrsReiver · 02/07/2012 12:24

Apparently she believes she's being watched by scientologists. She claims there's a big black van with MIB type dudes in it permanently stationed outside her new apartment. After watching the panorama episode investigating them, and seeing the amount of surveillance John Sweeney (?) was under while making it, it all seems very plausible.

TodaysAGoodDay · 02/07/2012 12:31

Just out of curiosity, did you know that all three of TC's wives were 33 yrs old when they left him? Wierd.

squoosh · 02/07/2012 12:34

I wonder who the next person to take the role of Wife will be. He might go for a non famous Scientology member to be safe.

Mishy1234 · 02/07/2012 12:35

She's in for a tough time of it for sure. However, I would imagine a LOT of preparation has gone into this before she filed for divorce and she will have looked into everything (or her lawyers will have) very carefully.

It's scary she thinks she's being watched though. Not very nice at all.

ASillyPhaseIAmGoingThrough · 02/07/2012 12:36

NK lost the kids, Katie has a lawyer Dad annd took her time to set up a situation so she wouldn't loose Suri to scientology.

squeakytoy · 02/07/2012 12:37

"but there's still the disruption to her schooling, the jet lag..."

you are talking about a child who has spent her whole life being carried around by her mother, on shopping trips and late night restaurant visits.. I doubt she actually goes to school

that child needs some normality in her life before she ends up completely fucked up.. you never see her playing with friends, you never see her mother out with friends her own age either

confusedpixie · 02/07/2012 12:41

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Sallyingforth · 02/07/2012 12:45

The little girl needs to be kept as far as possible from the lunatic scientologists. Good luck to her mother.

valiumredhead · 02/07/2012 12:46

Who was the other wife apart from Nicole Kidman and KH?

GingerWrath · 02/07/2012 12:51

Mimi Rogers

TheSpokenNerd · 02/07/2012 13:02

TodaysaGoodDay REALLY?? How odd! I wonder if there is somethingthat happens in that church when you reach 34 or something! I feel for Katie...she looks haunted and I had a bad feeling about all this yesterday. She reminded me of someone and I couldn't think who...but then I realised I was thinking about Princess Diana. I hope she's beng looked after.

squoosh · 02/07/2012 13:02

I'll bet Nicole Kidman is laughing with absolute glee at this pickle that Tom has found himself in.

TheSpokenNerd · 02/07/2012 13:03

Squeaky she has been enrolled in a Catholic school in New York...they start later in the USA>

TheSpokenNerd · 02/07/2012 13:04

Choc a man like Tom wont hae TIME to look after a child in a joint arrangement. Joint means 50 50 doesn't it?