it's only poo or aibu?

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We've recently moved and got a cleaner. She's very nice but I'm not that impressed. She scours the kitchen within an inch of its life and skims the rest. For the last 3 weeks I've noticed that DP's toilet and the teen's toilet have poo stripes. SHe has cleaned the toilet but not scrubbed the stripes. Is this not a bit out of order? We can't have loo brushes because DS loves them and charges round the house with them aloft.

I once worked for a woman who left her pads in her pants when she put them in the wash, so I do know what it feels like to think, jesus, meet me half way.

But still, is a bit of a scrub not part of being a cleaner?

So your teenage son runs around with toilet brushes?

YABsooooU it's unbelievable.

You want the cleaner to clean up your DP's and teenagers shit with the hands?

Buy a brush.

Get your DP and son to clean up their own crap.

Sooty, DS is 2 . the teen is difficult but not barbaric.

THe teen has to clean his own bathroom but he's notoriously unreliable

Then let him live with the shit he (literally) creates.

Otherwise he's going to grow up to be a bit of a useless, lazy lump who expects his wife to clean up after him.

or maybe she uses your toothbrushes.

And let them know that everytime they brush their teeth they are eating shit.

YABU

It needs to be removed immediately - I can't imagine not having a toilet brush in the house so I would put one somewhere out of reach of your DS, otherwise use another method, but it is out of order to just leave it (presumably for days )

There is one individual in my household who doesn't have the decency to use a toilet brush and leaves the toilet smeared with poo so I feel strongly about this!!

She is provided with rubber gloves and scrubbies. What's the difference?

I just did them all myself with gloves and a flash wipe.

Worra I am training him, I just need a bit longer.

Is there nobody in your house capable of pouring bleach into a toilet?

But they are your toilets.

You can't expect your cleaner to scrape your DH and DS shit that's been there for a week with her hands, that's pretty disgusting.

You do know cleaners are actually people, don't you?
I mean you are paying her to do a job but at least have a bit of decency and respect.

Is this a new angle on poo trolling?

The brushless poo troll

Why not get her to wipe their arses as well?

Training the teenager?

My ds2 puts a bit of bleach in the loo and scrubs it with the brush-he is 8 FFS

at the brushless poo troll

Even if she gets all the skids off, you can't only clean toilets weekly. I'm very lax when it comes to housework but shit skids are not acceptable. They need to be cleaned off as soon as they land there, not once a week.

If it's that straightforward OP then your kids and DP won't mind doing it will they?

Gloves. Cillit bang. Job done, no?
Get scrubbing then.
You leave poo in your toilet for the cleaner to do it once a week?

Do you leave your kitchen in a mess until she comes?

Tidy as you go including your own poo.

And before you ask, yes I have a cleaner. I also have a loo brush and a2.6 year old who I keep an eye on and make sure he doesn't play with it or any cleaning things

What would "a bit longer" accomplish in terms of training your idle teen?

So the 2 year old doesn't have his own toilet?

(Fascinated by this multi toilet household and irresistably reminded of the Not the Nine o'Clock News sketch)

"Sorry I just thought you poured the bleach, left it a few minutes then came back with the scrubber."

WTF?! And you used to be a cleaner?!

I think I just won't have a cleaner then. I can't stand the disappointment.

I am very tough with the teen and he does clean his bathroom. I don't go in his room much though.

Pootroll

You are getting rid of the cleaner, rather than buying a loo brush??

I think I just won't have a cleaner then. I can't stand the disappointment

Just clean your toilet more often.