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AIBU to think that MN is unreaasonble to have a divorce thread...

134 replies

jumjum · 16/03/2012 23:02

... a realtionship thread even a sleep thread but not a marriage thread? How can marriage be redefined if MN doesn't even recognise it?

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WorraLiberty · 16/03/2012 23:03

Would you like to start one then?

hiddenhome · 16/03/2012 23:04
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PrincessWellington · 16/03/2012 23:05

Would your marriage section include civil partnerships or should they have their own topic as well?

jumjum · 16/03/2012 23:05

oh dear... the quality of MN contributors is not what it was....

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KatyMac · 16/03/2012 23:06

Did you mean a topic?

Valpollicella · 16/03/2012 23:06

Do you mean a marriage topic?

Cherriesarelovely · 16/03/2012 23:07

but I would consider myself married and I am gay living in a civil partnership, the relationship thread covers all kinds of different set ups. It's not that "marraige is not recognised".

RhinosDontEatPancakes · 16/03/2012 23:07

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AgentZigzag · 16/03/2012 23:07

'oh dear... the quality of MN contributors is not what it was....'

Oh, I was going to post a reply but I don't think my contribution would be up to scratch.

Maybe if you put what answers you'd prefer in your OP then posters can tailor their posts more to your liking?

SparkyMcSparrow · 16/03/2012 23:11
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jumjum · 16/03/2012 23:11

But if people in marriages and civil partnerships spend as much time together as they do individually asleep why isn't it a thread in its own right.?
And the idea that marriage has an equvialence with relationships is odd. Marriage implies a loving relationship but relationship may not necessarily imply love.

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SparkyMcSparrow · 16/03/2012 23:12

And the idea that marriage has an equvialence with relationships is odd. Marriage implies a loving relationship but relationship may not necessarily imply love What a load of bollocks!

Cherriesarelovely · 16/03/2012 23:15

So a "loving relationships" thread?

Valpollicella · 16/03/2012 23:15

A relationship may not necessarily imply love?

Yeah absolutely. All these hundreds of thousands of people living together...they fucking hate each other they do.

Slip a ring on their finger though and bang lurve is in the air

jumjum · 16/03/2012 23:17

SparklyMcSparrow - glad to see you are raising the tone and debating the point from one of high principle.

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habbibu · 16/03/2012 23:17

Marriage implies a legal relationship. Doesn't have to be loving.

RhinosDontEatPancakes · 16/03/2012 23:18

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jumjum · 16/03/2012 23:19

Loving relationship topic would be good but that would not replace the need for a marriage thread or IABU

Vallpollicella - have your read the relationshop thread

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AgentZigzag · 16/03/2012 23:20

If you're saying that just because people are married that doesn't necessarily mean they're in love and happy and might like a support thread to help them get through, I would say, going on the amount of threads there are about posters DH/Ws, a large chunk of MN is about marriage it's just spread about a bit.

But I'm only guessing at what you mean as you've not really spelled it out clearly, but that might just be me not being here long enough.

jumjum · 16/03/2012 23:21

Habbibu - really? What sort of "marriage" of you possibly thinking of... " to love and to cherish... in sickness......

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habbibu · 16/03/2012 23:21

Why not a legal partnerships topic? Would you include civil partnerships?

Valpollicella · 16/03/2012 23:21

Have I read which relationship thread? There's thousands of them!

Do you mean the relationship topic?

Yeah I have. Not sure what your point is?

habbibu · 16/03/2012 23:22

Forced, actually. Of convenience. For green card. Failing.

SparkyMcSparrow · 16/03/2012 23:22

jamjam get my name right!

Not all married people are happily in love, in fact I think I know more miserable married people than I do couples not married.

A marriage topic would end up exactly the same as relasionships!

ABatInBunkFive · 16/03/2012 23:22

I think you are confusing threads with topics?