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AIBU?

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To think that if someone elderly gets on a busy bus...

271 replies

NotaStatistic · 08/03/2012 09:43

...they should not expect a seat?!?

I would of course give up a seat for someone elderly or less able than me but should they think they're entitled to a seat just because they're old especially if they get on bus which already has people standing?!?

Your views please

OP posts:
Hullygully · 08/03/2012 17:18

lesley - no, you haven't nced so you aren't trolling.

lesley33 · 08/03/2012 17:18

what is nced?

Sparklingbrook · 08/03/2012 17:20

There is a thread about bad parenting too Cod.

Hullygully · 08/03/2012 17:20

namechanged. it is a GREAT op. Well done. I love the hypothetical permit.

lesley33 · 08/03/2012 17:21

Thank you Hully. Well I wanted to be inclusive Grin

Hulababy · 08/03/2012 17:24

They should be able to use the priority seats if they are available - and if able bodied people are using them they should of course stand and move.

If they are taken by other elderly or disabled people then other people on the bus should stand for them.

TBH I would probably judge someone who didn't. And yes, I do know of hidden disabilities, etc. but rightly or wrongly I would judge.

cocolepew · 08/03/2012 17:28

Wait! What? Mute the self service till?! How? Tellmetellmetellme.

TandB · 08/03/2012 17:30

Oh dear. I promised DS1 we could go on the little bus that goes through our village twice a day just for something to do.

But now I am afraid that Hully will hunt us down and melt us for glue.

Sparklingbrook · 08/03/2012 17:31

Yes that is strictly forbidden kungfu. Unless it's the night bus that may be ok. Wink

lesley33 · 08/03/2012 17:32

coco - On the self service till before you start look at the screen. At the bottom is a sound sign with little bars. If you press on it you can turn the sound down or mute it totally. I do it all the time now Grin

Laambkins · 08/03/2012 17:33

YABU

I'd give me seat to anyone that looked like they needed it more than me. Hardly anyone did when I was pregnant...Nobbers Grin

TandB · 08/03/2012 17:48

It's not the night bus. We aren't allowed out at night here in The Village.

It's a sort of inflated minibus. No wheelchair/buggy or any other sort of spaces and is almost entirely utilised by The Old.

Sparklingbrook · 08/03/2012 17:50

I thought you had put 'inflatable minibus' kungfu Grin That I would love to ride on. Grin

ChaoticAngel · 08/03/2012 18:20

I read that as inflatable minibus too Grin

kungfu maybe Hully will give you a special dispensation to have one ride.

TandB · 08/03/2012 20:16

I'm sure it was Hully who demanded that I give her DS2 when he was a few days old.

Maybe she would take him in exchange for letting DS1 and I live...

TandB · 08/03/2012 20:17

Inflatable bus would be useful. You could let a little air out to squeeze past other vehicles on the narrow lanes.

Sparklingbrook · 08/03/2012 20:18

Yes, and when the passengers fall over they wouldn't hurt themselves. Smile

TandB · 08/03/2012 20:19

They could bounce joyfully all the way into town.

QuietNinjaLamp · 09/03/2012 07:57

Ffs the sweeping generalisations on this thread. Not all sahms watch Jeremy Kyle y'know!

Sparklingbrook · 09/03/2012 07:58

I think the best thing you could do with this thread is miss the point entirely Quiet. Grin

SanctiMoanyArse · 09/03/2012 09:34

'TBH I would probably judge someone who didn't. And yes, I do know of hidden disabilities, etc. but rightly or wrongly I would judge.
'

Y'know what Hula that's OK; I would rather someone wrongly judge and give up a seat (if someone asks I can always explain about ds3 after all), than be a seat hogging twat.

NO to inflatable buses! My lot would think it was a tbouncy castle! Thyen where would we be? last time ds1 went on a bouncy castle, at my aunt's wedding last June, he was on for 8 bloody hours and ended up with 2 black eyes next day (you try hauling an autistic 11.5 year old off a bouncy castle with all your family shouting 'don't be a misery' as they down their 12th glass of crap wine).

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