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To wonder why MN has turned into such a bitch fest recently.

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Lucy88 · 07/03/2012 23:12

I have been coming on MN on and off for about 2 years and have always found it to be very useful for reading others advice and asking others for advice, reading reviews and getting holiday advice. There will always be times when people will disagree or not like other peoples advice, but I have been truly shocked recently at some of the posts I have read.

I am quite an outspoken person (in real life), but do try to adhere to the mantra of 'Don't put anything online that you would not be prepared to say to anyones face' but OMG even I have been surprised at the amount of bitchy, nasty responses some people have received on here recently.

I know that it is difficult when communicating just through the written word, as there is no body language or intonation to always give the correct message, but some posters really do think it is ok to be really nasty and make personal comments. Name calling seems to be the 'in thing' at the moment and I have to admit, that I just don't get it - not from grown women.

The majority of people who make these types of comments, probably wouldn't dare to say these things to people's faces, but think it is perfectly ok to do it online.

Can we at least have a week where we think about what we post and if we can't post anything constructive and polite, then perhaps don't post at all.

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BIWI · 10/03/2012 11:03
Whatmeworry · 10/03/2012 11:04

I give hugs and a surreptitious arse grope at the same time

My sort of gal :o

Lets hear it for the surreptitious arse grope!

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/03/2012 11:04

WinkGrin

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/03/2012 11:05

My FIL hugged me at Xmas and patted my arse, it is SO out of character that I think he must have had a senior moment and thought I was MIL for a minute

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/03/2012 11:05

almost spanked it

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/03/2012 11:06

BIWI you are just after my secrets and not my arsegropings Grin

BIWI · 10/03/2012 11:08

How very dare you, Fanjo. rumbled

Sargesaweyes · 10/03/2012 11:08

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/03/2012 11:09

am not an oldie (although I am 40 TOMORROW eek)

Sargesaweyes · 10/03/2012 11:10

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Whatmeworry · 10/03/2012 11:13

almost spanked it

Bonus :o

Sargesaweyes · 10/03/2012 11:14

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usualsuspect · 10/03/2012 11:14

Thing is , if I went on a forum and I didn't like it I would fuck off I wouldn't hang around

I've looked at netmums it's not for me so I don't go there, and despite being a mn grandmayou can't swear on gransnet so I can't go there either. Grin

usualsuspect · 10/03/2012 11:15

why didn't my italics work

diotima · 10/03/2012 11:15

Have you noticed the most dangerous thing to be at times is the voice of moderation or just proposing an alternative perspective to something drifting into dark fantasy land? It's as if you're spoiling the fun! You're liable to get a good kicking!

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/03/2012 11:16

too late Sarge

Grin

Whatme - yes..drew hand right back and then two sharp "giddyup" type spanks"..I am cringing totally posting this

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/03/2012 11:16

diotima..yes I have noticed that happens to me a lot Wink

Whatmeworry · 10/03/2012 11:22

Have you noticed the most dangerous thing to be at times is the voice of moderation or just proposing an alternative perspective to something drifting into dark fantasy land?

I agree - there are no howlingly frothy Reasonables :(

Whatmeworry · 10/03/2012 11:24

Whatme - yes..drew hand right back and then two sharp "giddyup" type spanks"..I am cringing totally posting this

Ride a cock horse to Banbury Cross :o

everlong · 10/03/2012 11:25

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Sargesaweyes · 10/03/2012 11:27

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/03/2012 11:28

aww thanks

diotima · 10/03/2012 11:28

Whatmeworry covens groups

Very well put! I've especially seen you being subjected to these attacks. Your posts still get noticed though so stick at it!

usualsuspect · 10/03/2012 11:32

All forums have groups of regulars though , not much you can do about that .I don't think you have to fit in ,although sometimes I feel worlds apart from some mnetters tbh.

BIWI · 10/03/2012 11:35

Less of the 'old' please. Sensitive subject. I am 52 and nearly 53 and I don't like it one little bit

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