I do find it bizarre that people seem to have this view that anybody who breastfeeds past about a year is some kind of overprotective parent, when I forst got together with DP DS was about 2 and he expressed surprise that I let him climb stairs without supervision 
I'm guessing it comes from this position of thinking that NTBF is something which somehow forces the child to be a baby, whereas most people who actually have experience of it tend to think of it as letting the child reach milestones at his or her own pace.
If anyone is interested DS is 3.3 and asks for it by saying "Can I have some milk?", he also refers to cow's milk as "milk" without confusion, if he really needs to clarify he will ask for "milk from you" or "milk from a cup/from the fridge". He has only recently potty trained, he slept in bed with me until he was around 2.4 but then went into his own room quite happily with no arguments or problems at all. I still feed him to sleep, but it's a 5-10 minute feed after stories and normally a little chat about the day, he always goes to sleep easily and we have never had bedtime battles.
He talks constantly, he's fairly shy, but started nursery recently and was a lot more confident than I expected him to be. He often wants to help me make meals or clean, although when it comes to tidying his own stuff up, he's less enthusiastic. He is capable of making himself some toast or hot chocolate (using milk, in the microwave) and he often does this under supervision. He managed to cut himself a few weeks ago by falling on a glass and aside from a short feed as soon as I had stopped panicking checked there wasn't any massive piece of glass hanging out, he coped fantastically throughout the entire A&E trip without even asking or seeming to want milk, despite being prodded around, probably in pain and being rather freaked out that there was red stuff coming from his face. Today he wrote the letters M O O and the number 4, watched far too much CBeebies, and emptied all of his Thomas dominoes onto the floor.
In short, he is a perfectly normal 3 year old, who happens to still be breastfed. Today he came into bed with me at some time before 7 (I was still asleep) and I presume fed then, to which I would have rolled over when it got annoying and went back to sleep, and he would have rolled over and gone to sleep also. Then at some point this afternoon when he was tired and a bit bored I think he may have had a feed, and then at bedtime. But not when he was hungry, or when he hurt himself on a book he'd left on the sofa and then jumped on it, or when he screamed the house down after I washed his hair (!) - that's a typical example of a day.