to just be a bit shocked by what I found on our computer today?

[MrsJangleBalls]

Disclaimer - I was not bloody snooping!

Well only a little bit. Long story but bear with me...

I am currently trying to download iCloud. It says to go to Networks and Sharing. Well it wasn't there, but access to my dh's files was. His pictures file. Now I know he collects pictures of nude wimmin because I've seen him looking at them before. So I thought I'd take a peek at the kind of thing he was looking at. It was pretty harmless, just lots of posed pictures of naked women, etc. That wasn't what shocked me.

There were over 13,000 pictures.

It was like a fucking library. There were folders, sub-folders, categories, sub-categories, different fetishes, a whole folder full of folders of different women with hundreds of pictures of them in each one (and each one was named!) not to mention folders of lingerie, etc.

Now I know I probably got what I deserved, but 13,000? That's bloody years of collecting it. There's no way I'm going to tell him I've seen it. I didn't touch it, just looked through it. He obviously doesn't know I can find it.

I feel like I ought to be impressed at the sheer scale of it. I'm tempted to move it and wait for him to start asking panicky questions about whether the computer has gone wrong or not.

She's feeling a lot worse now! And I thought this site was to help people.

there you go again, lolly

making decisions about how OP is feeling

I told OP how I would feel

who are you tell her how to react ?

this is an interactive site...you don't get to decide who posts, how they post, how often they do it, but most of all how people are feeling

they have their own thought processes for that

I don't think you use this site to help people Anyfucker.I notice the capitalised I in your last post.That sums it up.It has to be all about you.

lolly if you have an issue with AF then take it off the thread cos you are NOT helping the OP.

Clearly the OP has an issue with it because she posted bout it. Some people think its ok some people dont. It doesnt make you a man hating feminist. You dont have to be ok with your DP doing this you know.

Neurotic Your statement makes no sense and is offense to me. They need the visual stimualtion? Why? What happens if they dont get it?

Wheresmejumper: ok will do. I just got annoyed because i think OP may need more reassurance than she's getting.

then reassure her, lollygag

she can take on board/ignore your posts just like every other contribution so far

trying to discredit other posters isn't the way to do it

unless you think only your opinion counts ?

(notice my use of your there...care to put your own spin on that one ?)

Hey,I've done my bit.You are the one who looks like ending their marriage.

The most depressing thing about these porn threads is the number of posters who think that "every man uses porn"

Oh, yes and I have a cush on flatbellyfella because he's a nice person.

crush not cush

I don't have him under a cushion btw

FBF is a sweetheart

AF is a sweetheart too. She's helped me loads, and I trust her opinion. I wish I had a RL AF in my life, it would enhance it no end.

A troll? Excuse me.
I only just joined this site 10 mins ago!
Warm welcome though huh

I would be very surprised that if in 13,000 pics of nude women there aren't underage girls. Yuk.

Bloody hell Zookeeper, can we at least try to keep the kiddy porn out of this? It's already been mentioned once and the OP was quite sure that's not the case.

Good post Zookeeper and so reassuring for OP.

But she can't be sure. That's my point

It was mentioned last night that there was a possibility that one or more of the photos might be of an underage or co-erced woman.

Well I'm super glad that neuroticnatty joined up all special to post on this thread. Cos every time people say all men use porn, I get to post this link to the anti-porn men project to show how wrong they are. And I love making more women aware of that site . Thanks and welcome neuroticnatty.