Tarty that was it exactly, I know your intention was not to offend.
If you honestly never have to hear this stuff you lead a very sheltered life. No, unfortunately I'm very familiar with it. I grew up hearing this type of crap, I don't hear it directly to my face any longer as I moved to an area where people are careful what they say but it does leak out occasionally. Make no mistake, verbal abuse is still abuse. This is how some people have to live.
The very fact that some other posters on here don't get why posting a video of RL racism might be offensive beyond an abstract sense of right and wrong supports my point. This is real life abuse you are witnessing.
Good if this has raised awareness, but this is not usually how racism works. It's much more insidious, like not realising why posting a video of RL abuse might be distressing and offensive.