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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To wonder what going on here today?!

254 replies

MincePieFlavouredVoidka · 21/11/2011 12:16

Three AIBU threads gone poof in an hour.

OP posts:
entropygirl · 21/11/2011 15:18

Okay so in the end you are all correct and in reality the number of threads deleted purely due to unreasonable troll hunting is very small (I was just unlucky :))
(and I'm being grouchy because my wanking piss poor excuse for breasts are not getting the expressing job done today and my DH just phoned up to tell me the milk I painstakingly expressed yesterday appears to have fucking well gone off)

I still think that the rules should be toughened up on attacks, I genuinely cant see the point of name calling.

SinicalSal · 21/11/2011 15:23

well you are right there IS no point, as such, but if people re upset and hurt they don't always respond with a reasoned well thought out counterargument.
that's different to those gleeful posters who revel in nastiness and baiting. Most of the time it's easy to tell the difference.

Pagwatch · 21/11/2011 15:23

I suspect the fact that I have no idea what your back story is re your thread is not helping here.

But your last post saying 'you are all correct' suggests that you are not terribly interested in what I have been trying to debate with you which is why sometimes people react with abuse.

I am not sure who 'you' are. As I said I am very rarely rude. And I have never ever once engaged in troll hunting.

But this does indeed seem pointless.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 21/11/2011 15:23

"I dont agree. You can put your side of things and tell them how strongly you disagree and even that you find their POV offensive but you can't tell them to fuck off or try to bury their opinion."

Entropygirl - I am not in Peachy's shoes, but I can well imagine that, after you have tried to explain for the umpteenth time why something is offensive/upsetting to people, only to see it rear its ugly head yet again, frustration might get the better of you, and you might tell someone to 'fuck off' rather than attempting, once more, to appeal to the better nature of some idiot.

Tigresswoods · 21/11/2011 15:26

Just me then

Get0rf · 21/11/2011 15:28

Really laughing at getorf and her ilk.

Who knew that semi literate div would be seen as so offensive.

Entropy you need to stay away from those threads where everyone calls each other a cunt (aka all SAHM V WOHM threads)

entropygirl · 21/11/2011 15:29

My god my foot is in my mouth today.

Apologies!

Typing one handed while expressing was making me too

So I am agreeing that there are not many valid threads being lost due to troll hunting. Some but not enough to get hot under the collar. As I hoped my second comment would indicate I still don't follow the reasoning that personal attacks are justified.

I am happy to keep discussing I actually just thought everyone else was bored...there was a general this is boring tone wasnt there? Am I being paranoid?

ShirleyKnot · 21/11/2011 15:30

I think I'm deffo in your ILK GetOrf. You fucking headcase.

Pendeen · 21/11/2011 15:31

Excellent swearing entropygirl

That's more like a proper MN contributor.

Tigresswoods · 21/11/2011 15:31

Hello hello am I invisible?

I'll go and lie down then... No I won't I'll go & hit some guests.

TandB · 21/11/2011 15:32

Everyone posting on here is human. None of us have all the answers or make 100% accurate judgements about how to respond to any given situation.

All we can do is assess a post and respond in the way we think is right. Often that will be by reasoned argument or challenging a misguided view. Sometimes it might be by reporting the post. And just sometimes, our gut instinct tells us that the most appropriate response is a good old-fashioned "piss off you div".

FWIW I have been deleted only once to my knowledge, and that was for calling someone a bigot, so hardly hate-crime of the century. I tend to be relatively polite, but sometimes a good solid "fuck off" is warranted.

entropygirl · 21/11/2011 15:32

My swearing rate is currently artificially depressed due to having somehow managed to tell my mum my username on MN.

Its a long story and not one that reflects well on my ability to think on the spot....

Get0rf · 21/11/2011 15:32

I am very happy that Shirl is in my GANG.

OOH we are like the SDP. But with better hair.

entropygirl · 21/11/2011 15:33

tiger I was confused by the string of letters....it over flowed my buffer....

Peachy · 21/11/2011 15:34

entrop[y BM doesn;t generally go off after a day but may have separated: tell him to give it a shake. BM contains antimicrobials so should be fine unless it's been elft out in a warm rtoom or soemthing for hours upon hours.

In my defence I never enter a thread with oh fuck off and it is very rare indeed I post that; 800 posts into a thread where someone is trying to tell me autism is caused by neglect I might break but generally I don't. It's actually incredibly rare and I try ahrd to avoid being one of thsoe who answer OPs rudely and try instead to talk to OP to find out what is going on and be understanding. 99% of the time I hope I manage it.

entropygirl · 21/11/2011 15:34

kung couldnt agree more but if you let rip then you should get your message deleted and a slap on the wrist and the thread should stand unless ALL sides have devolved into name calling...

WorraLiberty · 21/11/2011 15:34

AAARGHHH! Am I the only one here who has read quite a few of Mummystar's posts and can't see any disparity between them?

Probably Grin

On some threads she posts in pigeon English...though the majority of people with English as a second language don't 'post as they talk'

On other threads, her typing is completely 'normal' and totally different.

ShirleyKnot · 21/11/2011 15:35

Tigress - I would respond to you but I haven't the faintest idea what you're going on abaht!

SoonToBeMummyToAPrince · 21/11/2011 15:36

You are not the only one to notice Tigress.

entropygirl · 21/11/2011 15:36

OMFG people say autism is caused by neglect?!?!?!!? Where the hell do they get that idea from?

I have a list of weblinks to papers that I just drop into threads like that. Just heres the evidence to show you are wrong on all possible levels now go and read it.

Peachy · 21/11/2011 15:36

Entropy mine is my surname altered so little that a well known poster who was a helped at my rainbow unit recognised me immediately LMAO

Luckily she is fab (Orm).

Tigresswoods · 21/11/2011 15:37

I'm pretty sure the OP of the wedding thread was soontobemummytoaprince and she posted on page 2 of this thread.

I could be wrong tho......

entropygirl · 21/11/2011 15:38
ShirleyKnot · 21/11/2011 15:38

STBMTAP was just having a laugh and completely misjudged it though Tigress!

Tigresswoods · 21/11/2011 15:38

Ah ha! And there you go!

But pleased, continue with your discussion...

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