Everything Lying has said is it in a nutshell for me
It is the suck ups, fawners etc...telling people they shouldn't post their opinion on a word because there's some sort of personal history behind it...also expecting everyone to actually know the history behind it when most people have never even heard of Dee is a bit arrogant.
That sort of 'special treatment' just tends to get people's backs up...well that and those who deliberately tried to take the thread off topic.
For the record, I've been on MN for about 10 months and this is only the second thread I've read about the word.
It puts me in mind of all the hoo-haa over Riven/Ribbon (can't remember her name) where people were shouted down for even mentioning her name...let alone having the audacity to ask what the hoo-haa was all about.
It was as though a certain minority spoke and everyone else had to dance to their tune.
Two words: 'Public' 'Forum'.