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to wonder why I know nothing about a trip to Paris which my child is supposed to be going on next week?

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ZombiesAtYourCervix · 11/10/2011 16:26

Just opened an email from school
Shock
apparently my child is going on an art trip to Paris next week.
Shock
I know nothing about this
Hmm
I have paid no money (I think - although I tend not to know about money)
Confused
Nobody has mentioned it to me (I think - I might not have been listening)
Hmm

So. Do we think she is going? Do we think this is one of the many things that someone forgot to tell me? Do we think I am expected to stump up £4000 or whatever 3 days in Paris is going to cost (according to school)?

It is a mystery.

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ScaredBear · 11/10/2011 16:27

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Groovee · 11/10/2011 16:28

I'd be phoning the school to ask for further info.

KittyFane · 11/10/2011 16:28

What does DD say about it? I take it she's at senior school?

worraliberty · 11/10/2011 16:28

No idea but you do sound rather disorganised.

mrskeithlemon · 11/10/2011 16:29

you tend not to know about money?

Oh to have that kind of worry free life...

Salmotrutta · 11/10/2011 16:30

Good grief!
They'd surely have been chasing you for money by now for a trip next week?? Confused

MumblingAndBloodyRagDoll · 11/10/2011 16:31

I had a mystery email about a day trip next month....but a trip to Paris! Has your DC not told you on purpose?

KittyFane · 11/10/2011 16:31

I'm now wondering why you're asking MN and not your DD ... Oh, and the school !?!

cjbartlett · 11/10/2011 16:31

go through your cheque book or bank statement?
ask dd?

ZombiesAtYourCervix · 11/10/2011 16:32

according to the email it is a GCSE art trip. She is indeed doing GCS art. And is at Art club right now. Will quiz her when she gets in.

I' very Confused as had I known about it, it wouldn't have been a problem. I could have sold a kidney worked a bit extra to cover it. But next week??????? Shock

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MrsPresley · 11/10/2011 16:32

4000 pounds for 3 days in Paris Shock

Salmotrutta · 11/10/2011 16:32

Is your child independantly wealthy and able to have paid for this without you knowing?

ZombiesAtYourCervix · 11/10/2011 16:33

After my last financial cock-up (rather too many holiday flights booked) I've been more careful so am fairly sure I haven't paid such a vast sum.

It's weird. She would have wanted to go I'm sure.

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ImperialBlether · 11/10/2011 16:33

Ohh wouldn't it be lovely to have an independently wealthy child!

ZombiesAtYourCervix · 11/10/2011 16:34

Mrs P - maybe not £4000 but possibly. School trips are all massivly expensive.

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cookcleanerchaufferetc · 11/10/2011 16:34

The OP surely means £400 - not £4000?

Salmotrutta · 11/10/2011 16:34

Surely not really £4000? Maybe £400?
But normally they ask for installement don't they??

ZombiesAtYourCervix · 11/10/2011 16:34

maybe she sold a kidney? i'm sure i would have noticed that too.

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Salmotrutta · 11/10/2011 16:35

X-post! Grin

Salmotrutta · 11/10/2011 16:36

Oh, I'm laughing now - sorry! Blush

ZombiesAtYourCervix · 11/10/2011 16:37

now hoping she isn't going to saunter in and announce that she is going.

i'd need major Wine and preparation to let my PFB loose in gay paree.

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Salmotrutta · 11/10/2011 16:37

Maybe she has been taking in ironing?

KittyFane · 11/10/2011 16:37

I take it it's not really £4000?!
Also, are you sure it's not October 2012? These things take years months to arrange...
Or is she at a fee paying school and it's a paid paid for ( by school) trip?

ZombiesAtYourCervix · 11/10/2011 16:38

god can you imagin 15 year old girls loose in paris

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ZombiesAtYourCervix · 11/10/2011 16:38

oh. maybe 2012. hang on i'll check.

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