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Is it unreasonable to not answer the door when you are in?

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Lifeissweet · 02/10/2011 18:13

I am asking because there is someone outside the door at the moment and they have rung the doorbell 4 times. It is obviously someone who knows I am here.

The problem is, I've been gardening all day and have just got out of a long, hot bath. I am red in the face, my hair is wet and I am in my dressing gown. I don't want to face anyone like this - especially when I could open the door and be confronted with anyone.

I feel guilty, though, and like I should go in case it's important.

So, am I being unreasonable? Will they think I'm being rude? Because it's just rung again and it's stressing me out

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tothemoonandback · 04/10/2011 16:07

I don't answer the door when I'm not ready or dressed and I especially don't answer the door if they keep ringing the bloody doorbell 4 or more times. I learnt my lesson when I rushed out of the shower, drippping wet, panicking to answer the door and it was my next door neighbour's son just being fecking annoying and impatient.

I reckon if something is so urgent, they'll shout through the letterbox or ring me, they'll not just keep ringing the doorbell. It really pisses me off.

brighthair · 04/10/2011 16:24

Mine is an intercom, and is usually someone wanting a neighbour
"is x there?"
"no, wrong flat"
"well can you buzz me in?"
"no, you need to ring the right flat no"

We've had stuff stolen before so I never buzz anyone I don't know in. And nobody drops round unexpectedly, even though I'd quite like people to do it

deliciousdevilwoman · 04/10/2011 16:24

I don't answer the door to unexpected callers, generally. I too have a polite sign saying no sales/religious callers. My friends/family wouldn't call around unnanounced, as I wouldn't to them. I hate unsolicited callers. I am not antisocial-I pass pleasantries with people and I like the company of friends-but by prior arrangement. Even as a child growing up, I was glad my mother never had an "open house" with neighbours in and out all the time.

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