To think i dont deserve to be treated like a prostitute

[firstly]

Im fuming.
I have a sort of no strings thing with this man. But basically this weekend ive been treated like nothing more than a whore.
friday night at gone midnight i got a text of his cock. I hadnt spoken to him for over a week, no contact ( which is fine.. but not even a hello?) he was then annoyed at me that i refused to get out of bed ( i was asleep) and go see him.

Saturday night the same thing happened, but i was out with friends, so he just got annoyed that i didn respond at all.

Last night the same thing happened again, but it was a bit earlier, 9pm. I said i was free tomorrow and if he wanted to do something then, i would but i wasnt going to go round. He got really pissed off and said i didnt do it (!!!!) properly anyway and if was either NOW or not at all.

I am not a prostitute and do not deserve to be treated like one. Yes, i have slept with him in the past, and am not in a relationship with him, and i dont want a relationship with him, but how on earth does he think he can just text me things like that??

Or AIBU?

Have you partaken of said apparatus ?

Oh look at the time, I'm off to bed. Night!

you, you worshipper of cocks , you ...

Can always count on you guys to make me !

this is serious Peter

Wow, who knew that the OP would go from being an adult woman, capable of making an informed decision about wanting to have sex without a relationship, to being accused of being no better than a prostitute?

Fuck, people annoy me.

I'm astounded at some of the attitudes on this thread. You do know we're not in 1931, yes? Women are allowed to want sex without seeing it as some sort of precursor to marriage, you know. A lot of women don't even want to get married

Fucking hell.

I'll tell you what's wrong with Modern Britain. It's something that was also wrong with old Britain. It's the idea that any woman who has sex outside of a romantic relationship no longer deserves to be treated with the respect befitting a fellow human-being!

I'm fuming at some of the responses, I really am.

Firstly, plenty of people have told you what you already knew: the only thing you're unreasonable in, is that you second-guessed yourself long enough to think you needed to ask MN! He's being a nasty, petulant git, and I'm sure you can find a much more pleasant replacement.

To certain Past Posters: the guy is five sandwiches and a basket short of a picnic. To be quite logical about it, many men (and women)get away with treating women (and men) like crap, because they're emotionally involved with each other, and the other partner forgives them, out of love and emotional investment.

If you treat your No Strings Attached partner like absolute crap, why would they want to maintain the arrangement?

certainly not

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