oh shit oh shit oh shit

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oh shit, just come in. bit drunk. did a pregnancy test which was left over from ages ago because i was a few days late didnt really think i was but i fucking am. oh fuck, oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck.

Stop being such a twunt Gooseberry!
You don't have to explain yourself to her OP

Oh for pete's sake - stop dicking around with semantics. V tedious.

Goodeberry. Off you pop. And when you make a mistake, know what, just stay off mumsnet for suppot on how you can possibly put an impossible situation right.

In fact, no, come along. We care here. We don't mind that you have been rude and uncaring to others. We'll help you just the same.

OP, I missed that this was last night (this morning) but have not read the full thread (d'oh!)- you will be fine. You sound really strong and a great parent. Take your time, you still have time either way. Big hugs

My last was to gooseberry, obv.

oh Gawd...............

OMC You really do not have to justify yourself.

Gooseberry - have you swallowed JK's scripts the for next series?

It is an unplanned pregnancy, most people PG are unplanned - it is 1 in 3 as someone posted above. You are looking after your DC and studying for a brighter/ better (sorry can't think of a better wording) future for you all. Now you'll have another another to share that future with.

I know having a DP/H is ideal but tbh many long term marraiges break up after planned children and many short term partnership last with unplanned ones.

You don't have a crystal ball but you sound like you will do your best to weather the storm.

Congratulations and best of luck

Good - more room for the rest of us imperfect beings to look at the stars from the gutter, then.

'I'd rather be living on the moral high ground than down in the gutter.'

Well I'll have you know us gutter dwellers are very fussy about the company we keep. You stay in your nice glass house and leave us be.

OMC - not that you need to justify yourself to anyone but, given the circumstances with the sterilisation, coil etc., sounds to me like this baby was meant to be. Congratulations and good luck.

Just to pick up on something Gooseberry said though - if you are in social housing then maybe you will stand a better chance of being able to move somewhere a bit bigger now? Can't see from the previous posts why you "wouldn't have a hope in hell" of getting moved. Not sure why she said that (amongst other things).

• anyone for a sausage? Sorry, gutter residents only...

Sorry, it was BooBooGlass who made that comment. Read so much crap from Gooseberry I got confused.

I have not referred to the fact that she is in social housing at all. I have no clue why you think so. I have repeatedly said I don't care about the finances so long as the children have what they need.

The op is fine, and will be fine. Her children one would hope the same.

To describe as vile, mental and nasty pointing out the fact that she was irresponsible is very, very depressing.

It is a Good Thing to be responsible. It is not a Bad Thing to point it out.

ummm crumble...

It wasn't crap, but I suppose you're fitting in wth the general trend of lazy abusive posting.

Glitter: if you are really looking to offer help, there is a lady in pregnancy with a genuine contraceptive failure, expecting twins - children 4 and 5, and exhausted and worried. But she's not in AIBU. So you won't have seen it.

Wishing her children luck in a sarcastic manner is lazy and abusive.

gooseberry-You are not a lone voice on here. I also pointed out in my earlier post that I though the op was irresponsible(and Im still not convinced it was entirely an "accident"). However I do respect her choice to not have a termination. Like you I really hope that things work out in her relationship and for all the children.

Ohhh don't mind if I do

I wasn't being sarcastic.