oh shit oh shit oh shit

[ohmycrap]

oh shit, just come in. bit drunk. did a pregnancy test which was left over from ages ago because i was a few days late didnt really think i was but i fucking am. oh fuck, oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck.

good luck OP, and hope your partner is supportive. I don't see the point of the judgeyness, what's happened has happened.

I do understand why you wont consider abortion-nor could I have done.I wont judge those who can do it but they should respect your feelings.Your 'confusion and fear' are normal.I havent read all the posts yet so wont say more than that you are a brave honest woman and I wish you all the luck in the world-any baby would be fortunate to have you for a mother.

"hahahahaha oh well i saw that one coming"

Well you didn't see it coming from me. Glad you've got your good mood back though.

I am utterly horrified by some of the posts by one poster on this thread. Mind you I've seen the same poster on other threads with much the same attitudes.

What is this place coming to when people think they can speak a certain way to posters with no empathy? With no care? With no thought that there is a human being behind these posts that they are hurting unbearably.

Nuts, mental, unbelievably nasty?

Do you all think it is "nuts, mental and unbelievably nasty" to consider irresponsible someone who does this?

Congratulations OP and good luck :)

Good I'm glad you're positive.....

I want, in return for my support, scan results, updates, name ideas (I think Crapola is a lovely name) and pictures when born!!

Thanksxx

Goose....No the nuts is for the fact that you think it's okay to post your feelings about abortion to someone who clearly doesn't want one and talk about her reponsibility when there's nothing she can now do.

hahahaha yes crapola is a fantatic name since it has crap in it how about oh my crapola

Oh and congratulations OP :)

Glitter: shame you haven't seen the supportive posts too - but then, selective reading in AIBU pulls your rope, I think.

I don't think ohmycrap is hurting unbearably. And spare the maudlin - really, it doesn't work. She's had plenty of support. She'll get plenty more. I am virtually a lone voice. You are all here to cheer her up so really, she's not hurting unbearably because of my comments. And if my comments affect her more than her pregnancy - how ridiculous.

no I think your vile attitude hidden behing a usernane is what is vile and nasty, and not helpful in any way shape or form.

The op will cope yes her Kids may not wear Boden (they may do I don't know) but from what she has written I firmly believe they will be loved, and supported.

Wow - so gooseberrybushes I take it you don't draw your child benefits or tax credits, have your kids educated independently and do not use the NHS then?! I suppose you have never made a mistake in your life either? I hope you never fall on tough times and have to rely on anyone's help, that'll stick in the old craw.

@theOP - of course it'll be fine, congratulations! Well done for sticking with your degree too.

Errrr.... no.
Actually I don't solely read AIBU, much as that may shock you.
I know I'm not the only one that thinks this way.

Crapola : my feelings about abortion which I've posted here are that I dislike abortion intensely. Explain how that is being unbelievably nasty to the OP.

Actually don't bother : as you don't read my posts I'll pay you the same respect.

Glitter: utterly horrified my arse.

"I know I'm not the only one that thinks this way."

Who cares? I know that a lot of people agree with me (that you probably think don't) but are too scared to say so.

Oh I am utterly horrified, I really am.
This poster is a human being. Yes she may have picked the wrong forum to post on but don't kick someone when they're down for fuck's sake.

Are you even a human being yourself? Fucking hell.

The only people who agree with you obviously are aware of just how shameful their bile is.

My dependence on the state is minimal, my contribution to it large. What relevance does this have? None at all.

In fact, I did need it six months ago. No, it wasn't there for me. Is this relevant? No.

I don't think anyone gives a flying fuck what your contribution to the state is.
Many posters here are trying to help the OP. Not sanctimoniously put the boot in.

Aw bless. I totally get that horrible pit of your stomach OMG feeling. Seriously, get off to bed. Eat some toast and a pint of water. Worry about it tomorrow. No drastic thing is going to happen as you sleep, but tomorrow, when you feel not hungover, you can reassess the situation. Try to put it out of your mind. Sleep is the most important thing right now for you.

there were other people that agreed with you goose and i accepted their posts and thanked them for their advice, you on the other hand seem to have taken my predicament personally for some reason, i cant think why.

How have I taken it personally? Where is the bile?

Just popping in to say congratulations and good luck OP :)

Pouring scorn on the op and saying how it's going to affect her other kids, how is that helpful? How is that not bilious?