To let my local Co-Op know that one of their cashiers hurled racist abuse at me on the bus last August

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Well? I saw the bitch working in my local Co-Op the other day. I don't want to go into detail about what happened, but I was not the guilty party and I did not provoke this woman in any way. She was lucky I didn't phone the police.
Should Co-Op be told that they have hired a racist bigot?
Oh and I will do it purely out of revenge and the fact that she is ruining Co-Op's clean image.

Yes, you definitely have got 'issues'. How will making a complaint that will never be acted upon, since it will be anonymous and without any evidence make you feel better? Whatever happened, I think you need to move on and if seeing her bothers you that much, shop elsewhere.

Look, justice, if this is serious, then I'd advise not to. Don't you see that not having made a complaint at the time means you have no evidence? Imagine if someone walked into your workplace and said, 'That lady sexually abused my child' or 'That woman tortured my cat' - would you expect your employers to say 'Right ho, that's Justice out on her arse'?

Of course not. You cannot make random accusations and expect them to stick.

Plus I'm no lawyer, but I think worra is right and she could do you for slander.

Why would they ban you- Because you are making unfounded allegations against a member of staff, slander is illegal.

Why would they hopefully ban me worraliberty??

To stop you harrassing their staff

i dont like the new waitress in one of the local cafes she is my neighbour and is very agressive. her and her DH have physical brawls infront of her DD in teh street at 3am. do you think i could get her sacked for it?

Your link doesn't work. No she is a married woman with a child. They were with her when the incident took place. I don't even know her name. I know it begins with "M" because I tried to peer over to look at her name tag, but couldn't make it out.

try here

Oh, okay, well she can't do me for slander if I am anonomous eh? Also, when they do receive the email I am sure they will tell her about the accusation and tell her to ignore it or whatever. At least she will know not to make that mistake again.

I can't cope with MN anymore

Don't stare at her name badge or she will do you for sexual harrassment, also.

OP it is a shame that you did not go down the legal route but you didn't so you have to let it go, i'm afraid.

"At least she will know not to make that mistake again."

or maybe she will know exactly who sent the complaint and will see you in teh street and have anotehr go at you.

OR

maybe she will think, hey, i scared soemone so much they remained annonymous to complain. what i did worked.

I think if you ever suffer a racist (or other) attack again, it is really important to report it. Even if you can't face court (and it may not come to that) but so that it is down for the record.

You cannot anonomise e mails, they won't tell her to ignore it, it is a possible 'risk' in the workplace, some nutters got it in for her and who knows how far that it could go?

Get a freakin' grip you attention seeking numpty. If it bothered you SO much then surely you would have taken the necessary steps at the time of the incident. You didn't. You now feel the need to approach the employer of said person and inform them that this person is a "bad egg" (are we in a famous five book?). WTF!!

I know it is a shame isn't it? I was told by people on the bus to call the police, but I didn't. I was alone and I felt vindicated and quite scared. You don't know what racist attacks feel like until you have been through one yourself, and a majority of you probably have no idea.

What will you do after you have complained if the Co op do nothing, and she is still working there?

Also, when they do receive the email I am sure they will tell her about the accusation and tell her to ignore it or whatever. At least she will know not to make that mistake again.

Yeah like they're going to tell the poor girl a random member of the public is spreading something about her

Julian, Dick and Anne, George and Timmy the doo--oo-oog!!!!

The CPS wouldn't have taken her to court, the police would have spoken to her about the behaviour being unacceptable unless they felt that the threat was real or she had 'previous'.

Well if the people on the bus told you to do it ......

Vindicated is the wrong word. If you felt alone and victimised then all you had to do was get off the bus and call the police then. If you are confident enough now to report this person then you could have reported this alleged incident at the time, you could have used anonymous crimestoppers if you felt so intimidated.

Don't get personal TakeMeDrunkImHome, there's no need for you to hurl abuse at me. I'm not attention seeking. Reported.

i have suffered sectarian attacks (thankfully all stopped now). i still have no right to go to teh employers of my attackers X amount of time later and 'inform them they have a bad egg' in teh team hoping tehy will get sacked.

portaloo - I will still feel better for it.

OP many on here have been racially abused or those that haven't have been a victim of sexism, so we are not making light of your experience, but you holding on to it isn't good for you. Some people are knobs, she is one, you have to let it go.