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but has Natalie Cassidy been heading for huge fall for a while??

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tl10 · 26/05/2011 20:42

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1390608/Natalie-Cassidy-emerges-time-fianc-Adam-Cottrells-arrest-calms-nerves-cigarette.html

Sounds very cruel but after months (have just returned to work from maternity) of reading trashy magazines in which she attacks anyone who goes to work/ bottlefeeds/ is a new mum but looks 100 times better than her and then shows off about how much sex she has with her husband (yeah, thanks for sharing) as if she is the authority on motherhood for us all, that her relationship may have so mething to do with her issues with everyone else and need to constantly show off? I feel for her horrible experience but she has made herself seem hideously smug and hypocritical over the last year- ugh rant over.

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Rosemallow · 26/05/2011 21:21

Wtf?!
She deserves a beating for being 'smug'?
OP you are unbelievable.

southeastastra · 26/05/2011 21:23

i think people are taking op in the wrong way!

i'm confused about natalie cassidy, i don't understand why she craves publicity so much, heat magazine are advertising her in a britney spears pose, what's going on with her?

jan123 · 26/05/2011 21:24

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ZXEightyMum · 26/05/2011 21:24

Very ill-advised, OP, but no reason why you should fuck off forever.

YABVU but you are post-natal. Name-change or lurk. Lots here to learn.

shineoncrazydiam0nd · 26/05/2011 21:26

Do you think the OP has got the message now or does she need a few more 'fuck offs? '

Yes, stupid, ill conceived OP. Folk just piling in now though...

Serenitysutton · 26/05/2011 21:28

I really didn't read the OP as saying she deserved to be hit AT ALL. has it been edited or you all hysterical?

southeastastra · 26/05/2011 21:28

she must have a crap agent

lynehamrose · 26/05/2011 21:28

Yes Natalie Cassidy has been very smug, wittering on about how awful parents - no, whoops, mothers are if they work, but you are bang out of order with your comments OP

bibbitybobbityhat · 26/05/2011 21:29

Will go on for a good few hundred posts yet Shiney, if recent form on MN anything to go by.

OP - you can ask for thread to be deleted if you think it was a mistake.

takethisonehereforastart · 26/05/2011 21:30

I hadn't realised that she had actually been attacked by him. I haven't read the papers, I only saw a brief bit on the internet news on my homepage and it said he smashed up the house and left, but it didn't say he had beaten her Shock

OP I'm trying to see what you say you meant in your first post. Were you meaning that often people who present their own lives as perfect while being critical of other people are sometimes doing so to hide the fact that they have real issues and problems (such as DV)?

If so then yes, I think that can be true.

But your choice of words with "heading for a fall" etc don't really show that if that's what you were thinking.

southeastastra · 26/05/2011 21:32

i don't get it either sutton, what you all on about

Serenitysutton · 26/05/2011 21:32

Aww, name change she sounds really nice from your post. I'm strangely fascinated with her- she's so bloody odd looking. And she does come accross as a real wally, but an extremely immature person also.

bibbitybobbityhat · 26/05/2011 21:32

Serenity: op (intended to) link the thread about the dv NC has suffered; she is directly linking the smugness with the dv.

StayFr0sty · 26/05/2011 21:32

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smartyparts · 26/05/2011 21:35

Gosh, not a fan of NC, (although namechange's post does make her sound very sweet) but poor thing. Hope she isn't a MNer and has read the OP.

I watched an ep of her ghastly E4 show and I thought her bloke a bit weird. A bit mentally lacking, if I'm honest.

FellatioNelson · 26/05/2011 21:36

I feel devastated for her. It should be the happiest time of her life and now it's all ruined. And not only is it ruined, but she can't even grieve for her lost relationship in private. Poor girl and poor child.

I was smug when I was young and in love and had my first baby. It's natural. If someone had wanted to pay me fortunes to take my photos and ask my opinions on love, weight loss and babies I'm sure I would have been happy to oblige. It's not a crime.

Serenitysutton · 26/05/2011 21:37

Bibbitybob I didn't read it like that at all, and saw what you describe. It's like a pack of wolves on th hunt.

Serenitysutton · 26/05/2011 21:39

He was a bit, smartie. I thought she came accross as very gasping and self obsessed too.

MigratingCoconuts · 26/05/2011 21:40

poor natalie Sad ..she really does look like the world is on her shoulders in those pictures.

i know nothing of her recent press...but I do feel deeply sorry for her

southeastastra · 26/05/2011 21:41

so why would she suddenly pose in a catsuit for heat magazine? :S

shineoncrazydiam0nd · 26/05/2011 21:41

Oh I know Grin

Posters will just ignore anything and everything - and SHE HAS SAID SORRY AND SLUNK OFF.

This will mean nothing and this will go on for another 453 tiresome posts.

Gotta love MN right now eh?

thefirstMrsDeVere · 26/05/2011 21:42

I think she comes across as a very ordinary young lady who has been pitched into a culture where being beautiful and sexy and perfect is all.

She has tried over and over to squeeze herself into this 'ideal' and she simply is not equipped.

She isnt pretty. She isnt sexy. She is ordinary. I would think that this sort of lifestyle is incredibly stressful even if you were some stunning telly blonde, let alone a girl who is a bit of a frump.

I think that is why she has overcompensated with all this Hello/Ok type of talk. She is trying to prove to herself that her life is perfect and she is some sort of Victoria Beckham character.

I think its very sad and how awful for her to have been beaten up by her partner. Its so public. She cant hide away and how many other smug twats are rubbing their hands in glee because she has got her comeupense (sp)?

I bet there wouldnt be half the 'ha ha she had it coming' if she were Cheryl Cole or similar. She would be a tragic hero then. Cheryl Cole was almost cannonised because she had a husband who shagged around. Hmm

Badly done OP, badly done.

southeastastra · 26/05/2011 21:43

i met her once in the pic and mix in woolies, was years ago though

she should have kept on with those trumpet lessons really

bibbitybobbityhat · 26/05/2011 21:44

(really? got to love it? tis driving me doolally tbh Smile)

herbietea · 26/05/2011 21:46

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