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Original poster

To be a bit annoyed that some lads peed in a bottle and then poured it on my DD

108 replies

shandyleer · 21/04/2011 15:18

I'm not BU,I know I'm not. And I'm also not annoyed, I'm spitting feathers, but I don't know what to do about what happened, and I'm hoping for lots of outraged comments from you lot.

Yesterday, Dd (16) went with four of her friends to a local riverside where lots of kids hang out on nice days. There was a large group of 20 or so girls and boys, similarly aged to herself (she thinks). They began picking on her because she has red hair (dyed red). She ignored them, they then started picking on the other girls and surrounded them. Dd tried to reason with them by saying that they were all there for the same reason, and why couldn't they leave each other alone and why were they picking on people when they didn't even know them. Next thing she knows, lad approached with a pop bottle and pours/chucks it over her hair - and it was urine.

Dd and friends left at this point and rang dh from local train station (after having waited for train for nearly an hour). Dh went back to riverside with them but the group had gone. I'm so upset for her, she was more upset last night than I've seen her in quite some time, and I don't blame her at all.

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rainbowinthesky · 21/04/2011 15:20

I'd report to the police.

cookcleanerchaufferetc · 21/04/2011 15:21

I would tell the police. I would be bloody furious .... Little shits, who do they think they are doing that. Yes, tell the police in case they know who they are.

muminthemiddle · 21/04/2011 15:22

That is digusting. Not sure what you can do about it though except get dh and some of his mates to go on another day and see if they can spot the troublecauses.

Rhinestone · 21/04/2011 15:22

Second reporting to police, that's actually quite a serious offence.

Insomnia11 · 21/04/2011 15:22

No of course you're not BU. Your poor daughter. Totally revolting thing to do. Bet he thought he was really funny, the shitclown. At that age I'd have knocked him into next week, but it was probably best being so many of them that your DD and her friends went away.

rainbowinthesky · 21/04/2011 15:23

Why would it be a good idea for her dh and some of his mates to go round to find them?? Are we living in the dark ages?

Rhinestone · 21/04/2011 15:23

P.S. And so sorry this happened to your DD too. This is not normal teenage boy behaviour - tell her there are nice ones out there!

CurrySpice · 21/04/2011 15:23

OMG how awful! Shock Angry

I would be back at that riverside every day till I saw the lads again and could identify them. And I would be on to the police

Your poor DD :(

KurriKurri · 21/04/2011 15:23

I'd tell the police - that's a very nasty form of assault. Your poor DD Sad

IloveJudgeJudy · 21/04/2011 15:24

I've got a DS who's 16 and he said "that's jank". I don't think he can believe that people would do that. I also think "that's jank" and I've never heard anything like it. I also hope that you reported it to the police.

CoteDAzur · 21/04/2011 15:24

YANBU. That is shocking.

Pursue this to the bitter end. Find those kids and report them.

StewieGriffinsMom · 21/04/2011 15:26

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Original poster
shandyleer · 21/04/2011 15:26

Do you think the police would do anything about it? I did consider ringing them, but thought they might say there was nothing they could do. Thank you for kind comments.

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Champersonice · 21/04/2011 15:27

How awful! Shock Report it to the police as many others are suggesting.

rainbowinthesky · 21/04/2011 15:28

It's not only important to report them to the police so there will hopefully be a consequence to their behaviour but also so that your daughter realises that this sort of behaviour is unacceptable and doesnt go unpunished.

BettySwollocksandaCrustyRack · 21/04/2011 15:28

Well unless you report it you dont know what they will do. Your poor DD, that is absolutely dispicable........little shits and thats praising them!

sahara13 · 21/04/2011 15:31

Bless her-police defo.

Zone2mum · 21/04/2011 15:31

Definitely report it to the police.

OryxCrake · 21/04/2011 15:32

Your poor daughter. Yes, that's assault and I agree the police need to be told. It was a vile, vile thing to do.

Mumofaflump · 21/04/2011 15:34

What nasty little shits. Report it. It's just malicious and is classed as assualt.

I hope your DD is ok today?

Calixte · 21/04/2011 15:36

Yes please tell the police, your poor dd is probably not the first victim.
When I was at school boys would do this using a water pistol filled with urine, it's disgusting and humiliating. I didn't say anything , wish I had now. Hope you find the culprits.

Hammy02 · 21/04/2011 15:37

Definately ring the police. If someone did this to me I would expect the perpetrator to spend a night in the cells at the very least.

GypsyMoth · 21/04/2011 15:38

report it....and they may have been older than 16.

Snuppeline · 21/04/2011 15:39

I'd also say report it to the police. As its a fairly random thing to do there's a chance that they've done it to someone else or will do it again and if that's the case and the other offended party(ies) report it to the police too they're bound to have to do something. Get your dd and her friends to give as good a description of clothes and looks of the boys involved then call the police.

Its sad that this has happend and that your dd now probably will be less likely to enjoy the public space she was in. Your dd is unlikely the only youngster in your community who is scared/reluctant to enjoy being young with such twats around. The sooner you get the police involved the better for them all.

noddyholder · 21/04/2011 15:41

Definitely report it to the police that is shocking and they shouldn't get away with it Angry

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