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How many men have you slept with?

203 replies

NameChangeBooBoo · 05/04/2011 23:36

Tell the truth, if you can.

And how many do you confess to?

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Olifin · 07/04/2011 11:36

I was going to say the same nocake I was like Shock

TitsMcGee89 · 07/04/2011 11:44

nocake that's what I thought, i was working it out like "more than 1 per day, wow she's busy!"

wonka · 07/04/2011 11:44

3 Blush, but a lot of times Grin

JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns · 07/04/2011 12:05

admit to 2. (well dp knows 3 as does best friend)

secretive123 · 24/06/2013 06:11

Okay... I am 31. I have had chlamydia twice in my life for which i was treated, don't have HIV, had one abortion (after falling in love with 9 month relationship guy and it going very badly) , have had trichomonas and BV twice , all for which I was treated.
I have slept with between 60-75 men in my life and started having sex at the age of 18.
Am I ashamed? No.
Guilty about the abortion? Yes, but it taught me to take precautions in the future.
Relieved I don't have a disease like HIV? Of course!
I don't even remember what some of the guys looked like. I certainly don't remember penis girths or sizes!
I slept with around 6 men a year more or less. Sometimes it was great, sometimes it was crap. I have never done anything "out of the ordinary" like anal etc etc.
I would not regard myself as experienced. I still dont understand a lot of things. I had not even heard of anal sex among straight people until I was 25.
Does sleeping with this amount make me feel bad or make me a bad person? No. Because, life is not in black and white. It is in colour, illuminated.

Fairylea · 24/06/2013 06:15

2 as a teenager.
3 marriages

Rest post break up younger men mistakes!!

secondchances · 24/06/2013 06:18
  1. I'm 22.
TheRealFellatio · 24/06/2013 06:31

secretive how on earth did you manage to resurrect this after so long?

What were you searching for? Confused

bedhaven · 24/06/2013 09:59

Maybe the young gettingtrolled should consider the (back of a fag packet) maths.
At my age, having lost my virginity later than all my friends at school, with a few long term relationships I have no idea of my numbers but 80 only works out at 5 a year...quite reasonable IMHO unless they were all one night stands in which case it's rubbish! I would definitely want more sex than that, even when single.

AnyFucker · 24/06/2013 10:03

zombie thread

MyBaby1day · 26/06/2013 03:21

1,00000000000000000000000000 ha ha and that's just the women Wink. Too much of a personal question sorry.

Tuppence2 · 26/06/2013 07:54

30 something...
I'm 27 next month. I have 1 dd, had 1 termination and 1 miscarriage, and I lost my virginity at 13... I am not ashamed of my "magic number". I don't regret my termination but it was not the right time (was also on the pill so not actively trying) my only regret is that I was 13... It was way too young and I wasn't emotionally ready.

CheeryCherry · 26/06/2013 08:15

This thread is 2 years old Hmm

internationallove985 · 27/06/2013 12:35

Whatever 17. I thought I had an eventful love life/past.
Hi Name change booboo. I can't count exactly. infact I can't even remember all their names even. However I probably spent the night screaming it. (L.O.L). It is probably in excess of 50. xx

Didactylos · 27/06/2013 13:05

simultaneously or individually?

SammySockMonster · 27/06/2013 15:06
  1. i'm 20.
SuckAtRelationships · 27/06/2013 15:11
  1. I'm 23
CuChullain · 27/06/2013 15:24

Men 0
Women 34

DioneTheDiabolist · 27/06/2013 15:29

Loads. I have not slept with my male relatives, 6 men in Brazil and 7985 in China. But I've done all the rest.Grin

newmumsuchfun · 27/06/2013 15:40

I honestly couldnt tell you. Enough.

Sparklymommy · 27/06/2013 17:11

Probably around 20. I'm 29. First was at 14. Mostly not one night stands. Married at 21. 80+ is very impressive!

gordyslovesheep · 27/06/2013 17:14

lots - with no regrets at all - and yes a shockingly slaggy over 80 and I couldn't give a damn if that bothers trolls

HaveIGotPoosForYou · 27/06/2013 18:31

2 properly.

I am 23.

LimitedEditionLady · 27/06/2013 19:21

One,seriously just one and i am still with this guy after a decade.people are really shocked when i tell them that its just one!

LimitedEditionLady · 27/06/2013 19:23

Oh im 26 btw

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